So I got a girl's number, I text her almost instantly afterwards, and I've been texting again today - Only to visit seddit and realise I've been doing it all wrong

SpinMyRiki · 2012-08-17T20:19:19+00:00

let's assume that she's still interested;

I think you have to let it rest with her for a while. wait some time and make her notice that you're not around. the next time you write her think of something funny to say. don't just say hey, how are you. be creative! then ask her out and see where things go afterwards.

just wait a few days WITHOUT contacting her and see what happens.

PhiLLyinDaLLaS · 2012-08-17T20:19:39+00:00

What has your conversation consisted of?? Just regular getting to know somebody convo or flirty/fun/banter??

Would it be best to stay quiet and just send one text asking for a date?

I'd say no, but more info might help...

puaCurveBall · 2012-08-17T20:25:47+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.

Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Title	So I got a girl's number, I text her almost instantly afterwards, and I've been texting again today - Only to visit seddit and realise I've been doing it all wrong
Author	MattyHchrist
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	August 17, 2012 8:08 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ye745/so_i_got_a_girls_number_i_text_her_almost/
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