Ok Seddit. I will try to make this description rather short, but I have a situation that could use some insight. I would post it in askseddit, but it really doesn't get near as much readership as this subreddit, and I need to get some answers before this evening.

I take a girl, Allie, out on a date 2 weeks ago after quite a bit of flirting and hanging out at a mutual friend's apt. Allie and I are both in college. The date goes well, no K close, but goes well and there's some good attraction. The next night, we end up at the same party together, and end up making out for a bit before she tells me she "can't date guys" (whatever that means) because she got fucked over by one or something so she now only dates girls. I totally don't understand this on any level at all, because she had already gone on a date with me the night before and we had just been making out.

Since then, we have been on kind of weird ground. I suppose we are "friends," but I obviously want more than that. We have hung out since then and it was somewhat normal, I guess. Nothing more than a hug at the end. Tonight we are supposed to go a comedy club and tomorrow there is another party that I know she will be at. She's a cool girl and I would prefer to date her than to be a "fwb" or, worse, friend-zoned. I really don't do that friends with benefits thing either. I tend to only go farther than kissing girls that I actually have feelings for - a somewhat foreign concept in this subreddit, I know. What steps should I take, Seddit?