Sober at a frat parties, energy levels low

-marathon- · 2012-08-24T08:45:02+00:00

I know that feel dude. When I’m sober and I feel that I’m out of energy, I remind myself of my long-term goal: To bring out the good vibes to as many people as possible. Reminding myself that I’m doing this for a reason puts me back in a good state. Or a 5-hour energy. Maybe both.

To not eat yourself up on how obnoxious all the drunk people are being, realize the world is your playground. So play in it. Entertain yourself. For example, I might say/do some dumb shit to my drunken friends just to fuck with them because I find it hilarious. Then the next day we’ll all share laughs about it over breakfast

xqznx · 2012-08-24T12:37:52+00:00

Hey, I'm not any specialist, but here are some advantages of being sober:

Beer goggles. Obvious.
Control. You are the one in charge. You do what you want and what you feel like to do. It takes some balls cause you play the "oh, sorry for saying that, I must have been drunk" card. But the benefits easily overcome this shortcoming: you present yourself as someone responsible, strong, in control. (and this doesn't have to bring the "white picket-fence" aura). Your mind works better, you can use all your wit and sense of humour.
If a girl asks you: "Why aren't you drinking? Is there something wrong with you?" Just say: "Why are YOU drinking? Is there something wrong with you?"
Oddness :) You can work being odd into being someone different, someone standing out. Good for you. Quite a few times I came to the response: "finally someone sober enough that you can have a decent conversation with, not a shitfaced guy babbling nonsense staring at my tits" (obvious response was "I'll just stare at your tits and try to babble something with sense")
Mind that girls often pretend to be way drunken than they really are. Like they share a beer for two and drink it for 3 hours, just act wooo crazy.
Driving yourself home is cheaper than taxis.
If you're running low on energy: a) go to a place you enjoy (!) b) eat a decent meal c) caffeine d) nap before going out.

Works quite fine for me.

tonylstewart · 2012-08-24T08:50:37+00:00

You will not improve your social skills going to frat parties sober. 1) Most of the people there are drunk, so you're not getting accurate feedback. 2) I don't know about your morals, but I don't like hitting on drunk girls while sober. It seems unfair and borderline rapey...

If you want to be sober and improve your social skills, walk around campus during the daytime and approach girls. It's the perfect time, because it's the beginning of the year so everyone is real friendly.

The other day I fell down in front of a girl on campus, got up and ended up number-closing. It's real easy.

Message me if you want some help.

Title	Sober at a frat parties, energy levels low
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Date	August 24, 2012 8:13 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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