Let's talk about clubs. I'm good at bars, but I suck at clubs. What did you do in a club that got you great success?

StrappingYoungLad · 2012-08-25T11:27:18+00:00

Dance my child, dance.

In all seriousness, you have to vibe with the woman on the dance floor at a club. Pickup lines need to be short and sweet because it is extremely difficult to hear the other person. My favorite line is, "Hey, I'm __ and you need to dance with me." Most of the time that is a go. Once you get hot and heavy through escalation (what better place to get your kino on?) you can move in for the K or take a break in a back room and try to game her a bit. What I've found that really works is if you have invested a good amount of time in a girl and have been really hot and heavy, invite her to a bar across the street or something so you can get time to talk. This is great because it shows confidence, security, and it seperates her from her friends. If she brings her friends for the ride, grab yours as well. It's a win win.

tonylstewart · 2012-08-25T10:03:06+00:00

Something I've learned over the summer is that you have to use two different strategies at bars and clubs.

Bars are usually not as loud as clubs so you can have good conversations with people. In general, people go to bars to socialize and drink good. If you're a natural fun person, it's easy to meet people here.

Clubs are a different story. Clubs are more visual and have more to do with image. How you look. How the people with you look. How you dance. Who you know. So you need to tailor your image to standout to be better at nightclubs.

If you're already good at bars, I would suggest coming up with a strategy to get girls to quiet parts of the clubs you go to. You can also spot girls that prefer the bar scene easily, they are on the outskirts of the club away from the loud music. Go approach them and keep doing what you're doing.

Xeonit · 2012-08-25T10:28:07+00:00

I frequently go to clubs, so this is my piece of advice: Observe your surrounding and make yourself comfortable.

If you want to approach a girl, or a set, you could use the vocal part of a song to tease them. Its like "Hey, you look like the person who can sing. Let me hear the lyrics so I can sing with you.".

Do this looking at the girl with a good eye contact, or while looking at the set while trying to involve them all. Dance with all of them, but dont be the joker. Then start a light conversation about the music genres she/they like. Now try to focus on the girl you like. Dance a little more and ask if she wants to have a walk around the club (you must have estabilished a good connection, otherwise itll be a little awkward).

Thats it, from now on it all depends on you.

2012-08-26T08:04:57+00:00

lift weights. aesthetics crew

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