[FR] Brutally humiliated. She didn't respond to any of my game and called me out on using PUA techniques. I need some advice.

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clarifying · 2012-08-26T09:09:33+00:00

I don't know if this post was removed by the original author, deleted by mods, or reported and blocked, but here's the original self text for the sake of archival. Please PM me if this is an issue.

Throwaway because this is humiliating as fuck.

Just read the part after the bold below if you want to avoid TL;DR.

I was hanging out at a bar with my friend, his girlfriend, and her friend HB9. I'd heard from my friend that she's single. She seemed like my type, long dark hair and incredible green eyes + freckles. I decided to go for her.

When we first met, I held eye contact with her for a few seconds longer than "normal" and waited for her to pull away from our handshake. The four of us sat at a booth together, and I tried to throw her a few IOI to initiate a conversation. It didn't really work. She wasn't being a bitch or anything, she would just smile and say something polite before talking to my friend's GF.

My usual game with HB8+s is to throw them a little bit of IOI, switch to IOD/negging until they start to give even more IOI in return, and then go back to IOI at the end. This obviously wasn't working, so I decided to use a few techniques that I'd read about on seddit but hadn't actually tried yet (chick crack in particular) to find a way to get a conversation started. I finally got her talking a little bit to me when I asked her about herself, so I decided to start dropping a few trigger topics into the conversation.

I turned the conversation to popular books, and mentioned Fifty Shades of Grey, seeing as women seem to go weak over the mention of the series. She sort of got quiet and said that she wasn't into the book at all. I tried to neg a bit and said something along the lines of "you're so innocent, did the whips and chains intimidate you?" in a friendly, joking way.

She responded with something along the lines of "actually, the part of the book that turns me off is the fact that it's a shitty misrepresentation of BDSM, and that now it has people deciding that they can giggle about how naughty they are for reading badly written fanfiction". She sort of implied that I was one of "those people". At this point I decided to back off and switch to a different chick crack subject.

I asked her if she went on Pinterest (girl version of Reddit but with girl topics like fashion as front page stuff), she said that she didn't. I assumed that this meant she didn't go on the internet for more than Facebook-type stuff (this was my mistake) so I decided I'd try to impress her a bit - I'm learning some coding and I decided to play up my knowledge a bit. She seemed into the topic, so I started to talk about what I could do with my "knowledge", mentioned that I could hack into pretty much any personal website or computer if I really wanted.

This is where the humiliation starts.

She laughed. Hysterically. Told me that she'd never taken me for a wannabe hacker. I told her that it was very common to assume that it's impossible to do these kinds of things, and said that I could explain it a bit if she wanted. At this point I was panicking, decided to try a bit of last minute tactics, put my hand around her shoulder and started negging hardcore, talking about how she didn't need to feel insecure or self conscious because of stuff she didn't know much about.

She told me to stop touching her. She then said, in a mocking tone, "try using your shitty pickup artist skills on someone else. I myself am a computer programmer, I hack in my spare time, and you're full of shit. Next time you try to make a girl feel inferior when picking her up, make sure she doesn't know more than you do."

I left a few minutes later, said I had somewhere to be. I have never been more humiliated in my life. My questions are:

What do you do if you get called out on using PUA techniques?

Is there some way that you can coolly leave a girl who rejected you without seeming like a total beta? Some retaliation of some sort?

Anything else is also greatly appreciated. Can't believe I typed all this out over a self righteous bitch but I'm really messed up over it. Fuck.

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meiotta · 2012-08-26T06:38:48+00:00

what in the fuck happened here

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bubblybooble · 2012-08-25T22:45:40+00:00

This must have been an SRS false flag operation, trivially exposed like all the others.

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Title	[FR] Brutally humiliated. She didn't respond to any of my game and called me out on using PUA techniques. I need some advice.
Author	throwmeaway276
Upvotes	0
Comments	119
Date	August 25, 2012 3:27 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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