I find with most seduction forums the focus is on getting that first date, or getting laid, but none of them detail what to do after..

I'll explain by way of personal experience. On the rare occasion that I score, its usually with a girl I've met that night (rather than a prior acquaintance). I have no problem in the sack, but I have massive stumbling blocks the next morning. Because I've only known them a few hours, and that was in a bar where everyone was drunk and enjoying themselves, I have no idea how to treat them in a sedate setting. And this is always where I lose it. I feel the connection evaporate. I just don't know how to act around them, and its tangibly awkward. Any help/discussion in this area would be awesome.