How to react when you feel your girlfriend pulling back?

rebuildingMyself · 2014-04-01T07:31:23+00:00

The OP asked a clear question. The correct reaction is pull back even more.

If you do this genuinely, and not pretending to not care, she may come back depending on the circumstances.

It all depends on how loose she is at the moment. Before you do any more damage, start backup plans immediately.

-Increase exercise -Call/Reach out to older plates. -Be less available.

Varrian · 2014-04-01T06:48:56+00:00

Dread game to the max if you wanna keep her. Keep in mind that she's pulling away for a reason. There is always an underlying reason for the things women do. Sometimes it's just hypergamy at work: she found someone of higher SMV that she wants to swing to.

Use dread game to real her back in and work on becoming the man with the highest SMV she knows.

Also, r/AskTRP.

trplurker · 2014-04-01T08:56:57+00:00

Prepare to eject her. You should already have plates your talking to, even if your not fucking them. Up the level of contact to other girls, start inviting them out to dates and so forth.

Women pull back for two reasons, first is they have found a bigger better dick to jump on but haven't yet secured their new position. In that case she is keeping you around as temporary backup in case she can't get a handle on the new dick. The second is she's trying a typical women power grab to see if your more invested then she is in the relationship. All women are machiavellian this way, every last pair of tits on the planet does this, there are no exceptions. In this case she'll distance herself to see if you come running back to try to "make amends" and thus she can feel secure that she has more power then you do in the relationship and thus you've become her bitch.

In both cases the correct response is the same, lower your concern for her and prepare to live without her in your life. Mentally accept that she's no longer there and start to look for her replacement. If she was engaged in dick swinging scenario she might very well rethink her swing as women are very risk adverse and she wouldn't want to swing to a new dick without being 100% positive of a backup plan. In the second case she'll find herself on the losing end of that power game and either come running back, or leave. In either case it's a win for you as her running back gives you the power to reinforce the rules of the relationship, and if she leaves it means she only saw you as a beta provider to begin with.

dray121212 · 2014-04-01T10:52:40+00:00

Fuck that shit just accept reality.

I have maybe 1- 2 months left in my current "girlfriend" before she dumps me/cheats on me. I've accepted this, when she does I'm going to say "okay" - smile, and immediately start spinning plates.

Beardsman2 · 2014-04-01T09:56:35+00:00

Up the alpha +++

Title	How to react when you feel your girlfriend pulling back?
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Date	April 1, 2014 6:04 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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