i'm not going to go into full detail because i'm tired and just not in the mood, so here's a summarized version of how im feeling right now:

my ex and i had a really bad break up, and it totally destroyed my confidence and i still haven't gotten it back yet. we dated for almost 2 years, and broke up about 5 or 6 months ago. i went to a club tonight with some friends, and i just couldnt seem to will myself to even try dancing with a girl. i really dont know what it is, but all my friends agree that once i dance with one girl, i'll be good to go from then on. what do you guys think? what do you think a good way to get my confidence back is? thanks in advance!