I crave, and it shows.

PrinceofSpades · 2012-09-24T06:58:47+00:00

Quit jacking off, start hitting the gym. Find a reason to be angry, an outlet to take it out on (the gym usually does it), and find a reason to be passionate about something. Basically sack up and start being an alpha. It sounds dumb, but if you get to a point where you really do just want a quick lay and if they aren't down you just don't give a single fuck and move on to someone else at a social event etc, then the affection will come from the person you hook up with afterwards. Even if its just going out and meeting new people, don't do it for the potential relationship, do it to meet new people. Practice makes perfect. The real life lesson is to not revert back once you are dating someone. Maintain the progress and continue to lead her.

chikinpickle · 2012-09-24T23:11:17+00:00

You ever want to feel like a motherfucking boss one day. Wake your ass up in the morning and take a shower. A hot motherfucking shower. Shave, put on aftershave. Style hair, trim fingernails and toenails. Trim eyebrows. (enough to get rid of the bushy shit)

Open up your closet and take out your suit. Take out your favorite shirt and tie. Put that shit on. Continue about your daily activities and don't give a fuck. Everyone will want to know why you are wearing a suit. Everyone will stare. Put aviators on for maximum sex appeal. Just make sure that shit fits well. Can't look good when you're suits too loose.

But look, real talk. I was a lot like you, I wanted affection. You want affection? Get a cat, cats love the shit out of you, some food and they are happy to be left alone all day. Or really a cuddly pet of any kind. bonus of a cat is it doubles as an exterminator. Something comes into your house that is alive, the cat kills that shit. It's an adorable and fuzzy and cuddly so girls love it, and it's a killing machine so you love it.

The_Music · 2012-09-24T05:43:08+00:00

Fake it til you make it. Works every time.

sillymallard · 2012-09-24T06:57:28+00:00

You crave affection and it shows.

Let me tell you something here, right now, that you should take to heart: Stop giving a fuck about other people and start giving a fuck about yourself. You're craving for affection is backwards, incorrect, and wrong. This is what little boys are made of, not men who get laid. Stop craving affection right now. Slap yourself a few times as hard as you can and tell yourself to stop. Everyone likes affection, but the difference between men and boys is that men don't need it, while boys go screaming to their mommies to get a hug. Man up, and this starts with you working on yourself doing what you want to be doing and being somewhat selfish in life.

2012-09-24T15:44:35+00:00

Read, work out, socialize, and read. The more that you read the more that you sharpen your mind and fill your head with good ideas that you can use to better yourself and enjoy life. When you work out you'll feel healthier and better about yourself. And when you load up your social schedule you feel busy, nurture your friendships, and derive enjoyment out of LIFE, rather than affection. Notice how this has nothing to do with getting laid; simply foster your own happiness and confidence and when combined with approaching it will fall into place with practice. You don't NEED affection to be happy; you just think you do.

riceguy01 · 2012-09-25T16:05:57+00:00

The hungry don't get fed.

themarts · 2012-09-27T15:37:03+00:00

just tell them you arent looking for straight up sex and actually want to get o know them, and hit up the gym

Viviparous · 2012-09-24T03:49:48+00:00

Get laid. Fat, ugly, tranny, whatever. Just get it over with. Then hit the gym.

Sounds like you have some rusty nuts.

2012-09-24T05:10:18+00:00

Craigslist.

Title	I crave, and it shows.
Author	Newni
Upvotes	17
Comments	15
Date	September 24, 2012 1:44 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/10dcry/i_crave_and_it_shows/
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