I work at at a big company with a lot of female employees. I am almost a month removed from a 1 year LTR with a girl I loved, but I had to end it because circumstances got bad.

There is a girl (HB8or9) at work that I had been flirting with on the rare occasion that I see her there (we’ve both been there a year and a half). I know she is interested in me based on the way she looks at me, and because of her reaction when she found out our shifts would not overlap like they used to.

So this past Friday, feeling confident from a few weekends of sarging, I decided I would ask her out. I recently added her on facebook, and had a few chats on there, but I knew I couldn’t ask her out on Facebook. And I never see her without lots of other people present at work. So I wrote a note in an inter-office envelope and put it in her mailbox.

The note said: I’m planning on going to the park this weekend. You should come too. Text (my number) a. yes. b. definitely. c. next week is better. -(my name)

I got a text maybe 15 minutes later, filled with exclamation points, saying that she loves the park, but she is helping a friend with a photoshoot this weekend. I’m pretty sure this was her humble way of saying she was modeling for some photos, because she’s gorgeous and she has some model shots on her facebook. So she says “next week we should totally hang out!” I say Okay, I tell her the day/time. She asks “what park?” I tell her I’ll let her know “soon.”

I send her more details the next day, through facebook message, telling her “I haven’t been to that park since I was a kid/ we can bring lunch and eat it there.”

I sent that facebook message Saturday at noon. My facebook app tells me she read it as 2:30pm on Saturday. I have not heard back from her or seen her at work. Last night I called her and left a message “just to say ‘hi’” and not referencing our plans, and told her I’d be up late. I still haven’t heard back from her.

I’m trying my best not to focus on this one girl. I have a date with another girl I met sarging the following weekend. I’m going out sarging this Friday night. I’m doing lots of other stuff to work on me and my own awesomness. But not hearing back from this girl is driving me nuts whenever I think about it.

I know part of me is using thinking about her and the possibility of being with her to displace my feelings of missing my ex/ feeling alone/ not wanting to feel my feelings.

So I was about to text her again, with something like “Hey, just checking to see if were still on for Saturday.” But I thought I could use a little insight before I (possibly?) push her away.

Any advice on what to do next would be appreciated.

Extra info: she posts a facebook status just about every day. Most are kind of pouty-negative. Today’s was a quote from a poem about how time doesn’t change love. She got out of an LTR a few months ago. She doesn’t seem to have a lot of guy friends or meet a lot of guys, since she’s a bit of an introvert.

TLDR: asked her out on friday. she said yes. Sent details on saturday. I know she saw them. It's now Tuesday night and still no word from her. What to do?