I need help in the hardest step possible, the actually talking to girls part.

A1R80RN3 · 2012-10-18T22:49:44+00:00

You just do it man. Even if you get shot down, you've separated yourself from the rest of the masses by fucking trying. Most people will never muster the courage to even try. But you're different. You have a gigantic metaphorical dick (I can't assume about your physical one, I've never seen it).

You don't need help. You already have it in you. Humans are innately social creatures. Sure, you might fuck up here and there, but we all do. If you need any "training wheels" (as in a routine or a line), there's already plenty of that material out there.

You just have to do it. No ifs or buts. Just do it. That's it. Sure, it'll suck at first. But everything that's difficult (and rewarding) sucks at first. You got this.

dxdifr · 2012-10-18T23:28:31+00:00

My best and favorite opening line in the coffee shop is "You 'really' look like you need some coffee.

Try to warm up a bit before you get to the shop. Talk to a cute counter girl or waitress. The first set is always the hardest.

A1R80RN3 · 2012-10-19T00:19:01+00:00

some extra details: I've tried to start doing kino, but i find it tough.

I'm 19, Tall, Athletic but I have a really introverted personality when I'm not around people I know.

For pretty much my whole life I've relied on school to try and force me into relationships (and friendships) and that doesn't happen in college.

I also moved to where I live now last year and I've only made one or 2 real connections (both redditors...)

Sabibaby · 2012-10-19T03:08:02+00:00

No guts no glory!

Go for it. Dating is a numbers game, you're a coder.

Say hello, be friendly to everyone, not just the ladies you want. Instead of approaching a woman at first, approach someone else and just say "hi, I like your shirt". You won't get much of a reply, but maybe a smile. Smiles are a great place to start a conversation. There's no need to be scripted, just say what comes to your mind first, or do like me and state the obvious... "It's a nice day outside" with a smile, or "the wind is crazy today!" with a bewildered look. Take steps to communicate with anyone and eventually refine your direction to ladies. Don't just do it at the coffee shop, DO IT EVERYWHERE!!!

EBR2100 · 2012-10-25T02:48:20+00:00

the tall guy at the dublin Starbucks?

Title	I need help in the hardest step possible, the actually talking to girls part.
Author	A1R80RN3
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	October 18, 2012 9:51 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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