Say you develop oneitis for a plate/FWB at a time when you just discovered TRP but were still operating from a scarcity mindset. Then you acquire a couple more plates who you enjoy almost as much. Your understanding of TRP is now much better and you have a stronger sense of abundance. But you still have oneitis feelings for the first girl.

Is it possible for these oneitis feelings to go away while continuing to see that girl, along with your other plates? Or once you develop oneitis, those feelings are pretty much locked into place, until you cut that girl completely out of your life and move on?

Part of me wants to see if I can “conquer” this oneitis disease while continuing to see her. The other part thinks I should cut my losses and move on, because this oneitis will never go away. Anybody have any experience here?

End note: There’s been a couple times where this girl broke my frame and affected my emotions — to the point where I’d skip a lift or eat something shitty — which is why I don’t want to continue if there’s zero chance the oneitis will ever go away. But if I continue improving myself, and spinning up new and better plates, will the oneitis eventually fade away? Would like some feedback from those who have experience with this situation.