The worst case of oneitis ever. I haven't seen her in a YEAR, but I think about her every day. Depressed about it. How do I get over her?

bl1y · 2012-10-24T02:15:06+00:00

Put one foot in front of the other one, then move the other one in front of the first foot. Repeat this process until your feet move you into a bar or club. Then, approach.

fortwunny · 2012-10-24T03:10:05+00:00

You will feel better in time, I went through the same shit.

confidentrisk · 2012-10-24T02:50:15+00:00

Force yourself to start talking to everyone. Be more approachable, walk and sit with a good posture, smile more. Force yourself to do something self-improving every time you think of her, like 20 push ups or an equivalent.

2012-10-24T03:52:17+00:00

The more you talk to people and approach new girls and really work on your innergame the better you will feel. Trust me, I was in the exact same position but I started working out, reading up on r/seduction and some books, and generally taking better care of myself. Once you get going you'll be too busy thinking about the next girl who'll be lucky enough to run into you to even worry about whoever that other girl was.

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-24T04:48:52+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.

Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Creamyg · 2012-10-24T03:27:13+00:00

We have all been there done that.

My only advice is don't fight it, let it pass. The more you try and rationalize your feelings the more strong they become.

opening sets, getting numbers and just putting yourself out there will expedite the process.

Title	The worst case of oneitis ever. I haven't seen her in a YEAR, but I think about her every day. Depressed about it. How do I get over her?
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Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	October 24, 2012 2:01 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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