Now I know this isnt whats popular on here and many of you wont want to listen but try meditating. Just take time out of your day and find your zone of zero thought and re-wire your mind. Focus on what you want to accomplish in life and tell yourself to do it no matter what. Want to lose weight? The only way I got myself motivated to go running is to completely clear my mind of everything and then to tell my self that I NEED to start running. And I only focus on that. You can motivate yourself to do better in what ever you want this way, be it work school or personally related. I'm tired of the whole putting on the "Alpha act" that everyone LOVES so much on here. If you're not an alpha don't look foolish "trying" to be Alpha. Just get into the right mindset and improve your self. The girls will come naturally because they like who you are, what you're working for, your ambition and your confidence. Don't be a "try-hard" meditate and be a die-hard.