I certainly am not a master at the seduction game, but I'm also not a noob. Anyway, some how I found myself making these mistakes. Don't do what I did.
I'm posting it here for two reasons. First, because I hate making mistakes and I'm having trouble forgiving or forgetting I made this one and posting it here might help me move on. Second, this may help other guys avoid these common mistakes.
the short story; met a girl, called her, arranged a date, went on date, sent text days later "I had a good time", another day later called her, arranged second date, went on date(which is where I made the mistakes), thinking LTR now, Flake
I believe this happened because I actually liked this girl a lot and got nervous Yes I sent text and actually said "I like you" in it - she lost interest Yes I called 3 times in the first 7-8 days instead of just 2 - came off as needy Yes I didn't escalate properly on second date - weakness, nervous, doesn't know what to do with a woman
Let the flaming begin... ;)
I don't really care if I get any replies to this I just had to get it out for my own sake.
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