I usually don't bring up the fact that I'm seeing multiple girls at the same time when I start seeing a new girl. I assume that it's obvious that if we haven't had a talk about it, we are non-exclusive.

When the relationship progresses, the girls will usually bring up the subject, and I tell them I'm not interested in an exclusive relationship, and most girls are fine with that and we continue seeing each other.

With a girl I met recently, I made a joke about her avoiding me because she was spending time with her (non-existent) boyfriend, which she took seriously, and said, "I'm going out with you and I respect that, even if we're not bf and gf". In other words, she's not, and will not see anyone else while she's seeing me.

Should I tell her explicitly that I am seeing other people at the moment?

More information about this girl:

  • Virgin
  • 21 yo
  • We've gone out on 4-5 dates, and have had a few makeout sessions at my place, but nothing else.