Background, and thanks Seddit

College student, still a virgin, was a huge AFC and so the only "relationships" (not even) I've had were the fake high school ones where you're like "let's be boyfriend and girlfriend" but I was too much of a pussy to make a physical move.

Seddit has changed things over the past year, a lot. Inner game, lifting, getting my hobbies and career aspirations in order, meditation, cold showers, etc. Just in the past two weeks (when it rains, it pours...) I've started seeing these three really high quality girls (intellectual, cute, well traveled, athletic, loves kids, loves video games, etc). Old me would absolutely get oneitis immediately, and I realize it's something that I should still watch out for.

Original purpose of this post

Now I'm wondering what I should do. What advice would you have for me regarding juggling multiple girls at once? (besides not dropping them. hahaha ok I'll see myself out now)

I've read past seddit posts on this, and I agree, honesty is the best policy. The friend of a friend I picked up at a club asked me if I had a girlfriend, I told her I was seeing other girls and that the relationships were casual and open. The other two girls haven't brought up the topic yet. I've only gone on one or two dates with each of these girls so far. Makeouts with all of them but no sex yet. When should I tell the other girls that I'm seeing other people (if at all until they bring it up)? When things progress to sex, or before? I don't even know if I really want to be dating multiple girls at once or not (is it something that's good for me to do, given my lack of experience?), guess I've never really had a reference experience. Originally my thinking for dating multiple girls was like what was mentioned here: reducing neediness, spreading risk. What are some things I should do or watch out for in my situation?

Honestly, I have no idea what I'm doing. Everyone's gotta start somewhere