Day 1: Open Mic Night

I'm looking through my facebook feed and see that a guitarist friend of mine was heading to an open mic night at a local bar and had invited a pretty cute guitarist I didn't know. I hit my friend up, asked him what he was up to and he invited me to go along. Cool.

I get to the bar and meet up with my friend. The girl shows up a little later and there's immediately some tension between us even in meeting. Of course, she and my friend didn't know that the real reason I was there was to meet this girl, but I must have sub-communicated my interest to her very early on. I think a lot of my game is in my presence. I feel like I'm very good at picking up on body language, and also communicating with my eyes and body. The second I met eyes with this girl it felt like it was on...

We go into the bar and sit down with a big group. I make sure that I'm sitting next to her but I don't really pay much attention to her. I spend most of my time talking to the group about playing music, and laughing and joking with my friend. I can tell she is interested because she keeps leaning into me and asking me lots of questions. More than a few times I turn to her and get into deeper topics about what we want to do with our futures, our dreams, our aspirations, etc. etc.

She plays a short set of her original music, which I actually enjoyed and I gave her some sincere compliments. I just continue showing a lot of my personality, joking, lightly flirting, and building attraction. She mentions that she is going to be playing a show in a few weeks in NYC and invites everyone to go... but is looking me in the eyes the entire time she is inviting the group. I said that sounded like fun and I told her to give me her number so I could meet up with her that day in New York before the show.

Day 2: NYC

My sarging buddy and I meet her and her friend in NYC a few weeks later. We laid around in the park and talked for a while before getting some drinks in the late afternoon. At the restaurant her friend mentions something about my target's boyfriend. This is the first I'm hearing that she has a bf. She mentions that he's really unsupportive of her and her music, and that they've been fighting a lot lately. I am unfazed and proceed like I would have if she was single. The girls go back to their apartment to get ready for the night and we go to my friend's.

That night we go bowling where her friend works. It was a great date spot, we got in and had 2 pitchers of beer for free and had a ton of fun. I start a lot of kino during the game. I start off with hi-fives for good frames and then hugs. I put my arm around her when we're sitting down so I can lean in close to talk. To test the water, I put my arm around her and pull her into my shoulder. She rests her head there and leaves it. As far as I'm concerned this is a huge green light and I'm in. I can sense she is somewhat hesitant to escalate because her friend is there, so I don't push things too far in order to make her feel comfortable. When we leave, I give her my sport coat to wear because I see she is cold. I wear jackets a lot when I go out and this move is ALWAYS appreciated and well-received. I also put my cologne on the inside of the jacket and girls always tell me they love the way it smells when they put it on. We leave the bowling alley and the girls invite us to go to their apartment for some drinks. nice.

We climb out the window and up the fire escape to the roof with blankets and a bottle of wine. Its pretty cool out so we lay one down and the four of us lay under the blanket looking up at the sky. I have my girl to me left, her friend to my right, and my wing to her right. We are all laughing and carrying on just as we were the whole day. Under the blanket, I rest my hand high up her thigh, and I don't get any resistance. I brush against her crotch under her dress and continue talking like nothing was going on. She rolls with it and I proceed to finger her under the blanket for about an hour while we talk and laugh with our friends none-the-wiser. This is kind of crazy because up until now she was hesitant to hold hands or anything more intimate than putting my arm around her. She rolls over and is laying half on top of me for the last 20-30 minutes or so... you know... for warmth. Our friends get the hint that we need some alone time and they go down to the apartment to see if she has any more wine. We say we'll catch up in a few.

The second they're out of sight over the side of the building, she practically mauls me! She has so much pent up desire that started from the first moment we met that she just attacks. I picked her up and put her against a wall and I basically had to stop her from going further that night. We kissed and fondled like crazy for 5-10 minutes and then climbed back into the apartment. Her friend didn't really want us staying the night so we had to go back to my wing's to crash.

Day 3: Firepit

Without any real provocation from me, she breaks up with her boyfriend during the next week. I'm feeling kinda awesome at this point because a year ago I would have heard she had a boyfriend (even though it was a bad relationship) and thought all hope was lost. I would have stuck to polite conversation and nothing would have happened. I continue sending her flirty texts and plan my next move.

Logistics are a bitch, so I feel like one of the most successful things you can do is to host your own event so that when the party stops, it's a quick walk up some stairs to the bedroom. I am really big into the outdoors and I have a very nice firepit and benches I built in my backyard. The next weekend after my NYC adventure, my girl and about 10 other people come over to sit by the fire and have some drinks. She gets there early with some friends, but they leave to buy beer and once again she attacks me the second they're out of sight. A few of my friends (including an ex from my AFC days!) walked quietly into the yard and caught us making out pretty hard, so everyone knew my intentions right off the bat. It felt pretty good that my ex saw because she had been blowing me off a lot lately when I was just trying to be friendly thinking that I was probably trying to get back with her. It was very clear now that I didn't need her anymore, and after that night, I actually was able to re-kindle my friendship with my ex because of that.

So anyway... while around the fire I rest my hand on her lap and she puts her hands on top of it and casually places it on her crotch. This girl wants it bad. haha I tease a little bit but nothing crazy, and no kissing in front of the group. As everyone is starting to leave towards the end of the night I shoot her a text saying simply "don't leave" and after everyone files out, it's just me and her. I put out the fire, take her hand and lead her up to my bedroom.

While this wasn't as glamorous and action packed as a same-night cold-approach f-close, I felt that this was a huge success for me in my sarging career. I basically chose a girl that I thought was cute and interesting that I had never met, set out to get her and got exactly what I wanted. I got her out of a bad relationship, we had a lot of fun together, and we are still friends after messing around quite a bit. Showing that I wasn't needy for female attention to my ex allowed us to become friends again. Being able to get an attractive and interesting girl into me in such a short amount of time was my inspiration for learning seduction, and I imagine a lot of the guys on this sub are the same way. I hope you enjoyed this and maybe got something out of it. I could write more specifics about how things went down, but this already seems pretty long haha. Just ask if you're interested, I'll answer pretty much whatever.