Previous post [FR] [3rd post] Hey guys, AFC here. Another night of failure..
Last night I was out with some friends and I was determined to cold approach for the first time. I've been watching The Pickup Artist for a few days and it really helped with my mindset. I have recently had extreme AA which has frustrated me. Well, last night I hit a club and opened 7 sets! Cold!
My aim was to open. Nothing else, baby steps! I used some openers from the show and they worked well. 3 sets (I think) were mixed, some guys felt threatened. They weren't in a position to speak to immediately to disarm them and increase their comfort, they came in mid-opener and were not happy. Guys in my city freak out when people talk to their girls. Anyway, I had fun which is all that matters.
Unfortunately since I was out celebrating there was a lot of alcohol consumed and I ended up throwing up and sleeping in today until 4pm. Completely out of character, I also caused an argument and made a fool out of myself... the night was great up until that point.
But I had fun! I cold approached like 20 people (in groups)!
For any other beginners, just get out there and do it! Most people are friendly and are happy to be spoken to!
Still very hungover and dizzy. I feel like shit, but happy with the progress!
Thanks seddit!
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