My parents are from Italy, so my whole family lives in Italy while I live in America with my parents.

My sister dates a black dude, and while I think he's a good guy, I don't agree with race mixing as I'm pretty nationalist and want my whole family to look and be Italian because I'm proud of my background and feel Italians should be united and together. I love our culture and family and it just doesent make sense to me for her to end up marrying someone of a completely different and opposite culture/background.

They're probably going to get married and it just doesn't make sense to me, our cultures are totally different, and our families won't be able to relate to each other at all, my family doesn't really know English and his family doesn't know Italian, plus most of my family is racist.

It's been 4 years and our families have only talked to each other once, I've only met them once and my mom and his mom never talk.

How do you guys accept this if you were in my shoes? I kind of resent my sister a bit because of it, especially because she kinda acts ghetto and she's just annoying cause she's so into black culture.