Title says it all. I have no problem opening, and once the discussion gets going, as in both her and I contribute, I have no problem. Still learning kino and such, so that's good. I should mention this is day game, clubs aren't exactly my thing.

Anyway, yeah, that's the problem. That time where she's still not warmed up. I've read a few things, but none of them were really concise, and just said a bunch of inspiring words. Help would be appreciated.