I can't be the only one...

So basically long story short I have an interest in sex like any other guy, however i enjoy going though the process more than actual sex. Its like if you love steak or a certain food. You may love cooking it, going through the process to pick the one you want, the smell of the grill cooking it, knowing that you made it perfectly Medium/Rare/Well. ITs all good. But actually dining on the steak may be good, you just enjoyed the preparation more than finishing.

So basically, i enjoy going though the process with women more than the actual sex itself. How you approach, how you become comfortable with each other, the first kiss, the first date, the conversation. The sex is more or less for them. (I just realized i sound like a chick and they're the dude.) If i had the choice to go straight to sex or go on a good date but didn't really aim for sex, I'd prob choice the date 2 out of 3 times.

Anyone else feel the same? or have any idea what im saying..