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You'll need to give us some more info bro, have you brought up the idea of threesomes with her before? What's her take on the topic? Is she promiscuous, has she ever been with other girls? Are you down to include another girl if the other girl is a midget? Thanks
/r/seduction12/02/14 10:19 PM
2

That's a retarded analogy, but I agree. For anybody that's struggling with paralysis by analysis, put all the theory away, do some approaches, THEN analyze what you did before you go out again the next time. It's essential to do that if you want to get good, because otherwise you'll keep making the same mistakes over and over again, but don't focus too hard on the material. Like OP said, get just enough material to get going. When you actually start approaching, the material that you need seems …
/r/seduction12/02/14 09:58 PM
4

Asexuality isn't a valid reproductive strategy for humans. Those people are broken.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:31 PM
-1

Fucking weird dude if you can live without sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 05:48 PM
0

How did you feel while you were talking to her? Describe your AA, were you physically shaking while you were doing it.
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:09 AM
3

Introversion doesn't matter, just gotta build up some stamina when you go out. In the end it's one-on-one with the girl anyway. No such thing as an "extroverted posture", you don't have to be high energy to be dominant.
/r/seduction05/12/13 05:08 AM
1

Best thing to do it is to stamp out any lingering feelings you may have as if it's like a cold that's gripping you, and go out and meet other girls. You're only jealous because you're using the relationship as a reflection of your self-worth. You're allowing what the girl thinks to dictate how good you allow yourself to feel. Start valuing yourself more highly, be the bigger person and be happy for the girl instead.
/r/seduction05/12/13 04:59 AM
1

I think u are right.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 12:07 AM
2

Dude, you replying to the right person?
/r/seduction22/04/13 01:55 AM
1

Ok bro, you try to conform to whatever suave James Bond ideal of game you have in your mind, meanwhile I'll steal girls off of you by being more fun and carefree. I feel like you completely misunderstand what good game should look like.
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:13 PM
1

I'll pm you
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:39 PM
2

You sound like a negative little creep. I can't really recommend a single one thing that will fix your game. You need to get more positive. Learn to be friendly and cool and lose the massive ego that you have.
/r/seduction20/04/13 06:05 AM
5

Humor's the cornerstone of your game. Can't really game without it. Super important not to be taking anything seriously when you're out.
/r/seduction20/04/13 05:48 AM
6

Don't know why you're getting downvoted, this is how you do it. Also: whips dick out, "It's not gonna suck itself"
/r/seduction16/04/13 08:10 AM
1

You crank up arousal, which is easy because you're gonna be beside them for a long period of time, so they're gonna be really comfortable around you.
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:38 PM
4

Lame. How old are you?
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:34 PM
3

You leave with her and her friends at the end of the night
/r/seduction09/04/13 03:02 AM
3

Haha now I want that to happen to me so I can do this
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 12:46 AM
0

Not all PUAs are creepy
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:46 AM
0

You're overcomplicating things and I have no idea what you're saying
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:40 AM
1

No different than you normally would. As soon as you start saying that you actually like this one and things are different, you've lost the girl. Things aren't different, at that point you're just being a little bitch who's in scarcity and thinks he'll never get another girl EDIT: you can't "keep" girls, they're people too
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:25 PM
3

Before like 5 years ago? Lol
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:24 PM
2

Gotta stay icy
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:21 PM
-1

Naw this is cheesy and lame now because everybody does this. My favorite thing to do is give her look like "girl are you retarded" and just stare at her when she tries to shit test me
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:20 PM
1

Yeah hot seat doesn't blow your mind because if you've done enough game you've done all that stuff yourself. It's more like them teaching you how to do it consistently
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:10 PM
7

You sound like you're having creative issues because you're putting too much importance on being perfect. You have ego problems. I'd recommend reading "A New Earth" or "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle and "The War of Art" by Stephen Pressfield. They address exactly what your problem is.
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:07 PM
1

Ye gotta do your own thing eventually bc even though PUA instructors seem like they know everything, they're still just regular dudes, although with more experience.
/r/seduction05/04/13 10:38 PM
1

Think of it like you want the girl but you don't need her. When guys are being creepy, they need the girl, and focus on that as their primary motivation when they're out, more than they do on having fun and expressing themselves in the environment. When you're just going up with a care-free vibe and you don't care about the outcome, that's when you actually get the girl, it's paradoxical.
/r/seduction05/04/13 08:59 PM
1

You misunderstood what I wrote. Creepiness comes from having an agenda when you're going up and talking to women. That's what you're doing when you're managing impressions
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:53 PM
1

Because you're being real, and women respond to that. Masculine polarity as Julien puts it. It's you leading and it shows that your emotional state is solid and unreactive. It's her job to be reactive. I don't do Daygame though so I'm kind of just talking out of my ass but to me it feels like you don't need to be as aggressive during the day time because there's no competition in the environment so you come across as a lot more innocent and probably should too.
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:51 PM
2

Yeah right, everything RSD talks about started making so much more sense to me after I dropped acid for the first time.
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:14 AM
1

I can relate to your situation and what helped me out was starting to be an asshole unapologetically. Maturity comes for men when you realize that you need to be in complete control of your positive emotions, and when you stop bullshitting yourself. You NEED to be an asshole, it's what you're designed to be, that's what being a man is. It's gotta be done in a way though where you're not apologizing for your desires as a man, but on top of that you're not going out of your way with the express pu…
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:13 AM
4

http://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:02 AM
0

Why do you care what other people think bro. Ultimately what matters is that you get the girl, and you're definitely not gonna get her being a negative little creep in the club trying to manage impressions
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:58 AM
1

Boner is best kino you could ever do. Why the fuck would you be apologizing for your desires as a man
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:19 PM
1

This. I think he's probably done a video for every single question that he's likely to get.
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:08 PM
-2

That's stupid, it's not like you did something illegal.
/r/seduction31/03/13 12:56 AM
2

Haha nice. As a thought experiment though, what if you were a fat old CEO, with all the dominance that that would bring. I'd argue that that would be all you'd need to get the girl.
/r/seduction30/03/13 08:07 AM
2

She wants the D.
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:14 AM
3

It's important to get a good grip of outer game fundamentals because the success that'll come out of that will put you into the positive feedback loop that'll motivate you to keep going out and improve your inner game. Knowing an escalation stack like that one will help you a lot because it gives you something to focus on and practice. This is what my escalation stack looks like: -Spin handshake -Hand clasp -Spin hug -Neck bite -Make out (triangular gazing or eskimo kiss) -Body rocking while pre…
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:56 PM
2

Just pull him aside to "talk" and tell him next time you see him
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:41 PM
2

IME maturity is attractive, and seems to correlate with better game. Women are attracted to older men because of this, you remind them more of father and authority figures in their lives and as a result they fall into your frame easier.
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:39 PM
18

Don't worry, you're not hurting their feelings, you're just being a little bitch. Rule of thumb you should be following is to never be the first to break eye contact. Wet panties will follow
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:33 PM
0

It's said that if you haven't made out with her within 20 minutes of meeting her, you're just spinning your wheels and it's probably not going anywhere. Sounds like you need to be getting more physical and be a lot more aggressive.
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:26 PM
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"I love you"
/r/seduction29/03/13 08:17 PM
2

Talk to her about it and tell her to blow the other guy off and go with you instead. Preferably the sooner you do it, the less guilty she'd feel about letting the other guy down. Also, what course of action would you be following if you 100% knew she was into you? Do exactly that. Assume attraction. And I'm trying to get this girl to like me. No, you don't TRY. Never be trying. You're good enough for this girl for no other reason than just because you're you. Don't put this girl on a pedestal.
/r/seduction29/03/13 03:19 AM
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Yeah, it's just a matter of losing outcome dependence. Once you're "out of the game", you're going to have some minor succes because you no longer give a fuck, forgetting that the techniques that you used are still from game that you learned. Then you think that's the new you, and you become dependent on success again, and before you know it you're back to sucking, only that now you become bitter towards learning PUA.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:02 AM
1

Ok first off nice strawman argument bro. I've been going out 3-7 days a week for the past 6 months and I've seen some shit, otherwise I wouldn't be talking. I personally know a lot of guys that aren't conventionally attractive (one of them being a 5'2" brown dude who doesn't give a fuck and has better game than I do) to know that looks don't matter. I've had some of my best successes on nights where I've been disheveled as fuck, so I know for fucking sure they aren't the "#1 determing factor". I…
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:57 AM
78

I'm reading seddit before I go out tonight and your post just put me in state. This is the kind of uplifting shit this subreddit should be filled with
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:11 AM
1

Of course most men aren't capable of dealing with it, that's why the success rate in the community is so low. It's what you need to do to get good. It takes a while to shed the belief that looks matter, but you eventually reach a point where you'll fully congruent to the belief. If you think that they do matter and have that limiting belief as you're starting out, nothing's going to push you to improve your appearance more than the promise of it helping out your game. Your mind will see it as a …
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:07 AM
0

Sluts are easier, but harder to find. Their need for stimuli is going to be greater because they've seen more shit, so usually you'll need to escalate harder and be more aggressive. If you show off that you're an alpha dude who isn't going to take her shit, easy pull
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:59 AM
1

Fair enough but in terms of opening to pulling a girl home in the shortest amount of time possible, nowhere better than a bar or club. Unless you to to a festival or similar event
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:57 AM
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OR, you could accept the fact that looks don't actually matter, and when you start believing that you can do it because you start getting positive responses, it'll only motivate you to keep on track with weight loss even more because it'll piss you off that you could have gone further with the interaction
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:55 AM
2

Keep pushing. It's like there's a ball of emotions between the two of you, keep playing with it and raising her buying temp. Play fighting between you and the girl can lead to physical escalation if she keeps at it. Also imo best response is always something retarded but while keeping the intensity on. "I'll see your MOM around"
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:52 AM
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And guys in high school nowadays actually might all be faggots. The bar is set low for OP
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:49 AM
3

Waste of your time, you're coming from a place of scarcity, and you're being a pussy and making excuses. There's lots of hot girls out there, if you get rejected it seriously doesn't matter. You're still going to have to talk to the hot girl, and that was the perfect situation to do it, what with the added social proof of your friend being there.
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:46 AM
1

It ultimately comes down to not being a negative little creep. Cockiness is good, but you've got to not be coming from a chasing frame. When you're the fucking boss and you talk down to her, she's going to be turned on more, but if you're trying to impress her with your cockiness and using it as a shield to protect the real you from being rejected, then it becomes a problem.
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:41 AM
3

You'll need to pull your dick out sooner or later anyway
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:37 AM
1

Lose weight while doing pickup. Becoming more attractive while simultaneously improving your pickup skills will put you in a positive spiral of motivation.
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:35 AM
0

That's really fucking gay
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:33 AM
1

Lol if you've ever picked up a woman at a bar or club you definitely wouldn't be complaining about them, night game is most efficient
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:31 AM
1

Doesn't really make a difference if you do or don't, the amount of people that will actually unplug and gain competence with game won't be a significant amount to personally affect your dating pool
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 11:54 PM
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Yes but assuming you've gotten this far by realizing a degree of competency in social dynamics, then you fully know and expect that that's what's going to happen here. You were icy as fuck so props for that, but it's kind of retarded to just assume that a situation's unsalvageable like you did. Could have easily reframed it and flipped the script back on her.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 11:50 PM
1

We're talking about PUA here, I don't know why the guy got so many downvotes. Physical appearance isn't just a large factor in male attraction off cold approach, it's THE factor, everything else just comes as a plus. You'll talk to the fatty, you'll warm up with the fatty, but you sure as fuck aren't going to sleep with the fatty.
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:21 AM
2

No, but irrelevant
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:16 AM
2

Gradual desensitization. The more you approach hot girls, the better you'll get at interacting with them. The level of hotness of girl that you'll feel entitled to will increase over time and with experience.
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:27 PM
3

Try going out with some wings if you're going out solo all the time. Try going out one night without any pickup goals in mind and just getting wasted and letting loose. Sounds like you need to have more fun when you're out.
/r/seduction05/02/13 02:07 AM
0

OP was asking about how to leave a set on a good note after being blown out. You seem pretty insecure bro, work on your inner game.
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:43 AM
1

Go out, try it, and write an FR!
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:25 AM
1

You have to get comfortable going up in whatever state you're in, and fully committing to the interaction. Watch this video.
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:22 AM
2

Great book(s), highly recommend as well.
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:20 AM
5

When a girl tells you NO, you don't continue to escalate, you walk away. That's red light, not yellow light.
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:16 AM
2

Once you catch the social fever it's really hard to get away from it. You start obsessing about going out and it starts to consume your life. This happens because you're making women your purpose in life, so naturally everything you do is going to gravitate towards that. Solution is to put your work ahead of women, which helps with getting women because you're no longer obsessing over them.
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:11 AM
8

don't do this
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:00 AM
-2

such a fgt
/r/seduction05/02/13 12:59 AM
1

If you kept things sexual to any degree it shouldn't really be an issue
/r/seduction04/02/13 07:35 AM
1

Hence why when you're trying to pull a girl you want her to feel like she's "the one" that you picked out, and not get the impression that you'd just go up and do that to everybody. The power of qualifying.
/r/seduction04/02/13 07:32 AM
1

All the RSD instructors (Alex included) follow the same set of inner game principles (i.e. believing that there's no reason why you aren't enough, fully expressing yourself, abundance, man-to-woman dynamic, etc) but vary in their application in terms of outer game. Everybody has different takes on game, apply critical thinking and figure out what works for you. Here's a video of Julien and Alex kind of addressing this.
/r/seduction04/02/13 07:20 AM
2

Give a specific example. Post an FR. Makeouts don't mean shit EDIT: how are you escalating
/r/seduction03/02/13 03:37 AM
4

Wasn't easy, but once you get through the initial pain period and start having really good nights you're hooked.
/r/seduction03/02/13 03:32 AM
4

That shame you feel is called socil conditioning. You're a man, this is normal. Start hanging with people and surround yourself with influences that constantly remind yourself that this is normal. Brainwash yourself into believing this if you have to, it's a selective blind spot. Reality is subjective
/r/seduction03/02/13 03:31 AM
1

Ye it basically just comes down to calibration, and calibration can't be taught, you get it through practice. You sound like you know what you're doing. You're never going to make a wrong move trying something new, it's all just getting the reference experiences, something I got from Julien from RSD
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:56 AM
1

Yeah I can't pretend to relate to what you go through every day but that's what girls are attracted to, seeing guys on their path in life who follow their passions and don't make women their number one priority
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:40 AM
1

Well said although sex is still part of the process, and you can improve yourself in that area just like any other part of game. It's the most intense part of the interaction, and if you're a normal human male with appropriate testosterone levels it should be the climax of your night. Sex is probably my favorite thing to do
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:37 AM
1

I'm talking to you like I would to the average sedditor who KJs all day, but really that's actually the best thing you could do. If you've made them fully aware of what's up, it really is as simple as inviting them over. Dunno, I'd need to see a particular example to see more about what you're doing. All in all makeouts don't mean shit other than spiking their buying temperature and getting them ready for a same night pull. If you're going to be running day2s like that though I'd recommend going…
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:30 AM
1

Oh lol. Ya I get what you're saying now. Good job man, that's exactly the mindset you should have towards that. One step closer to realizing that those things actually don't matter at all and that girls are attracted to self expression with no filters
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:23 AM
2

The more you try and look for a method to solve this the longer you'll be spinning your wheels and not making progress. You need to learn to let go and not put up resistance when you're in the interaction. It's FUN to talk to people, next time you're talking to people ask yourself how you'd be feeling right now were you completely congruent with that idea. It's scary how quickly you start to accept those behaviours as your regular ones. Good luck
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:21 AM
4

Don't do that, she definitely wants the D but doesn't want to go against her social conditioning that tells her she can't do it, so she's just rationalizing this closeness to you through being "friends". If you want to make her your gf you'll have to bang her. Invite her over or get her elsewhere in isolation. Maybe find an excuse to get a round of drinks. You'll need to keep it really upbeat and funny, taking her mind off of her boyfriend by just occupying her emotionally and physically. Escala…
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:12 AM
1

If you were to take a snapshot of any time in your interaction with her, would someone looking at it be able to go "yup, right now he could just push her onto a bed and fuck her"? Man-to-woman communication vs friend-friend communication
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:00 AM
1

That particular example's a little creepy IMO, but I guess it depends on the vibe of the interaction you had. If you haven't even made out with them (why not?) obviously don't invite them to your place right after
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:39 PM
9

Wat
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:29 PM
1

Just go talk to her and ask her out, sounds like she wants the D. You're taking this too seriously
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:27 PM
1

Be friendly and cool. Realize that when you go up to girls, they're your friends and they really WANT you to be normal. Stop putting on some "pickup" schtick and just act like a regular person
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:15 PM
1

Stop looking to other people for answers. It doesn't matter how you approach, you've never done it before so you have no point of comparison except what you've read about, which is irrelevant because the real world is vastly different than the one you have in your head right now and only through going out and seeing the patterns that occur over a larger span of time can you actually develop the skillset. Don't judge your actions, realize it'll all come together organically if you keep approachin…
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:11 PM
4

If you don't have a social circle that you can hang out with go join a club in something that you find interesting and find new friends there. Practice being social, make eye contact with strangers. Learn to say hi to people. Start small and build it up. It sounds like you're a hardcase, you're going to have to realize that it's a long journey and that you can't expect progress overnight, so accept that fact, but realize that there's absolutely no reason you can't get good if you're going out re…
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:06 PM
3

How old are you OP. At any point in the interaction are they aware that you are a man with a penis? Fix this
/r/seduction02/02/13 11:01 PM
2

"Oh, her, I know her from before"
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:53 PM
3

If you want her go get her and be be unapologetic about it. Get more girls.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:53 PM
3

They're both correct, for different reasons. You need to be doing them both at the same time. You have to go out and have fun, being completely self expressive, and not caring at all about the outcome. You have to be going up to girls because you want them, not because you're trying to prove something to yourself, or have a particular objective in your mind. If you do that, you're going to come across as reaction seeking and the girl can sense that from a mile away. There'll be an incongruency i…
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:50 PM
0

Game isn't quantum physics, pickup fundamentals are easy shit.
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:18 PM
1

Make them aware of the fact that you are indeed a man, with a penis.
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:31 AM
0

Cool story bro
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:28 AM
1

If you're consistently going out, there's no reason anybody won't get good at game.
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:25 AM
1

All cities have a Lair, get involved with yours.
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:23 AM
2

Game is learned in cycles. You're going to have periods where you're going to start identifying with good results that you've gotten and develop an ego around your abilities, which is going to make you outcome dependent in the field until you realize what you're doing and snap out of it and just go out to have fun. Other times you'll have other shit in your life interfering with your mood and you'll suck because of that. The important part is to keep going out and not judge your progress. Look a…
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:12 AM
6

Do you do what you want to do or are you a permission-seeking little bitch? Do seek approval in social situations? You having to ask this question could either mean that you are dominant and think it's natural to act like that, or else you don't understand it and aren't even close.
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:06 AM
3

Problem with telling people about "the state" is that they start chasing it and use not being in state as a rationalization for not approaching. I've seen this in myself and others. It's important to trust in the process while you're out and realize that you'll get there if you keep approaching, but not judge yourself for it. This goes for daytime approaches too, you shouldn't feel the need to be "in state" for you to approach.
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:00 AM
1

You execute the program assuming she doesn't flake you.
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:04 AM
1

"how's your night"
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:19 AM
9

The game never stops.
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:12 AM
3

lol
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:11 AM
2

Be the fucking man, not an approval seeking little bitch. Own everything you say/do, you're always right, how could you not be, you're a fucking man.
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:07 AM
1

Your opener doesn't matter, you can't talk yourself into a girl's pants.
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:05 AM
1

Picking up a chick is basically foreplay to sex. Flirting is man-to-woman communication, not friend-friend communication. The girl should know you have a penis and want to put it in her.
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:02 AM
1

Hahahahaa, fucking pussy
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:59 AM
1

All the guys I know that did bootcamp also did hotseat the same weekend. If you have the money and you're serious about improving, that would definitely be your best bet.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:54 AM
1

Bootcamp will force you to push yourself harder than you've ever before, and show you exactly what 10/10 game looks like, so you have real tangible evidence instead of bullshit thoughts about how the game works. Would drastically affect your learning curve, I saw once happening in my city and those dudes were doing the craziest shit.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:53 AM
1

Yup, very few people on Seddit go out. The amount of good info I see downvoted here is alarming. I browse it every now and again just to see what the hardcase newbie mindset looks like and as a gauge on how much I've improved. RSDN forum is hundreds of times better in terms of info, especially the field reports section there.
/r/seduction08/01/13 06:48 AM
1

Two traits that make you the best PUA possible.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/13 03:23 AM
6

You're a faggot. Change your mindset. Get more girls.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:59 AM
2

You just gotta do it and accept they're going to be shitty approaches. You have an idea in your head of what your game is because you haven't been out in the field and gotte rejected recently, so you're having resistance to losing your self-image as a PUA superstar bc you had a hot girlfriend. You have to lose the ego, accept that not every girl's going to like you, and instead focus on having fun when you're out.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:57 AM
0

Don't project, it's a good line
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:23 PM
1

I laughed, stolen for the future, thanks OP
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:16 PM
1

You can say anything, just be unreactive
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:14 PM
1

You'll see a lot of bullshit, for many different reasons, and it'll be up to you to decide how long you want to chase or whether you do at all before it's on to the next one
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:12 PM
1

How should one ask what? You're a fucking man, you don't ask, you do.
/r/seduction26/12/12 04:12 AM
1

Learn to be more engaging, you sound like you're a boring person IRL
/r/seduction26/12/12 04:10 AM
4

I would have ignored it and switched topics after the "LOL"
/r/seduction26/12/12 04:08 AM
1

Yes, very important, need to sell yourself to her by proving that you're funny through your witty anecdotes and life experiences, huge DHV. Forget about you being the buyer in the interaction and having self-esteem. Other methods include whipping out your massive dong.
/r/seduction25/12/12 10:01 AM
2

Just keep going out and the problem should correct itself eventually. It's you coming to terms with being awesome. Eventually something will click, trust in the process
/r/seduction24/12/12 08:32 AM
10

Hahaha, community acronyms are fucking retarded
/r/seduction24/12/12 08:10 AM
1

It kind of is though in a way. Eye contact's the biggest piece of your game after vocal tonality.
/r/seduction24/12/12 08:07 AM
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This guy's a faggot, she's definitely going to flake him. He was super shifty the whole time, wasn't putting out that relaxed vibe that someone that's comfortable with themselves would have. That's what a warm-up approach might look like.
/r/seduction24/12/12 06:48 AM
8

Good looking people still needs game, but they're more prone to being "naturals" because of confidence from a young age.
/r/seduction21/12/12 07:28 PM
1

How about you learn to be an attractive person in real life, then it won't matter
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:24 AM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3OhvYNdvRw&t=5m16s
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:01 AM
1

Sounds like she's put you in the "potential boyfriend" category instead of the "fun guy from the club" category, meaning that she's into you but going to make you wait for sex.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:24 AM
1

People on this subreddit are fucking ridiculous
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:19 AM
2

Yeah if you fall into the trap of using it as a justification for being lazy. Ideally you should striving to achieve your life's goals, and finding happiness in the process.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:08 AM
9

It's a very zen thing to realize that happiness is a default state. It's paradoxical, but the way you achieve true happiness is by accepting the present moment while simultaneously being on your path in life, striving to reach your goals. Learn to take joy in the process.
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:05 AM
1

I'd you want your mind blown go watch The Blueprint Decoded
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:46 AM
2

Stop being a faggot and go out there and get hot bitches. What the fuck is with these limiting beliefs, if you're out there believing you're the fucking man, that's the only thing that girls are going to see. You're insecure as fuck and sound like you hate yourself. If you don't think you're awesome, how are women supposed to? Drop the ego. EDIT: Also, you're coming from a paradigm that looks matter. Drop that shit.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:28 AM
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/r/seduction10/12/12 03:24 AM
1

She's definitely going to be uncomfortable if YOU'RE uncomfortable.
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:55 AM
1

That's like the shittiest advice I've ever heard. If your frame isn't strong enough that your set gets ruined by your friend coming in and you can't deal with that shit, you don't deserve the girl in the first place. "IoD's" - What is this, 2005?
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:42 AM
1

This is stupid. Why would you lose momentum opening hot girls. You get momentum by opening, opening everyone, and never being out of set. You're just rationalizing staying in your comfort zone.
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:36 AM
1

Compliment her when she least expects it.
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:29 AM
3

Approach more and focus on the fact that you're the shit. Stop analysing your state, that's fucking retarded, puts you into your head. Focus on having fun in the interaction and in the night in general.
/r/seduction10/12/12 02:25 AM
1

It definitely could. Give it a read though if you've read stuff like Tolle already.
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:30 PM
1

That's basically how I felt after reading Brad's stuff for the first time and getting into the whole self-love thing. If you really want to get deep into that shit and really understand what he's really coming from, check out this book he recommends on his website.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:49 AM
1

Yeah, it's called go the fuck out. Regularly. Like multiple times every week. You'll desensitize yourself to it, and your "alpha"-ness will emerge.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:20 AM
2

I get this too, I've been dealing with it by looking at motivational shit every day, taking action, and dealing with the paradigms associated with that. You can always do it, doesn't matter if it sucks, you can still go out there and own it. State is irrelevant, how you feel isn't always under your control. What you can control though, is the fact that you're taking action, and then just trust in the process and the fact that you'll get into state eventually, because it always happens. Focus on …
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:16 AM
3

He probably chose that spot because he liked the shot. You're overthinking things. Go out.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:03 AM
2

I don't understand what you're trying to convey here.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:01 AM
3

Go to hotseat if you want to see the real thing. Boosted my game like you can't imagine. Oh yeah, and go out. You sound like you don't.
/r/seduction28/11/12 05:59 AM
5

Naw, it's hard to believe it if you've never been there, but getting to that point is actually pretty easy. Check this video out. Hope that helps.
/r/seduction12/11/12 04:04 AM
1

Yes it is, you're overthinking things, just be normal and own whatever it is you do. Be shameless
/r/seduction12/11/12 02:16 AM
2

Get more girls
/r/seduction12/11/12 02:15 AM
7

Stop framing rejections as something painful that you should avoid. Start realizing that getting blown out doesn't matter AT ALL and that there's no limit to the amount of girls you can open. Your approach anxiety's going to disappear if you make rejections fun for you
/r/seduction12/11/12 02:14 AM
1

You should realize that you're chasing too much if you're doing that. You need to always be leading, the girl's not going to lead, ever. Take full responsibility and assume the role, stop being a little bitch.
/r/seduction05/10/12 11:00 PM
1

It's entirely about this, you just need to go out and desensitize yourself to the experience. You can mentally masturbate as much as you want about it, but approach anxiety is approach anxiety and the only way you're going to be able to get over it is to take action and put yourself into difficult situations and get the reference experiences you desperately need. It's like you have all these higher-level thoughts in your head, and in your mind you think that you should be able to apply this in t…
/r/seduction05/10/12 10:56 PM
1

If you got a number out of that, I'd assume she'd flake. You reacted when trying to go for the makeout instead of being indifferent to her rejection and trying again like it didn't matter. You have to differentiate between the types or "no"s girls will give you, often times it doesn't mean no, it just means not right now. Example there being that if you had just brushed it off while being unreactive, spiked her buying temperature some more, then gone for it again, you may have been able to get t…
/r/seduction05/10/12 10:46 PM
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