Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?

Brannus · 2013-02-03T20:47:34+00:00

ZenAdm1n · 2013-02-03T21:25:52+00:00

Women will shit test you until you die. The way you pass is you never take them. Learn what a shit test is in a relationship frame. The classics are:

Does x make me look fat? Do you think I need to lose weight?
Sullen mood and the silent treatment, she wants you to ask what's wrong.
You don't pay attention to me. You're always with your friends.
More psycho shit tests include threats to break up or cheat.

Do NOT play this game. You can't win. If you start jumping through hoops you will be her bitch.

DrunkAtTheWedding · 2013-02-03T22:22:32+00:00

I have found that how you begin a relationship, is the standard you set from that point on. If you see each other every day. You have to keep doing that. If you go on exotic vacations, you are gonna have to keep doing that. But with my new relationships, my awesome girl friends see me once a week, we go Dutch on everything, and sex is their reward for doing nice things for me. That way, in 6 months a vacation is a treat, not a norm. As for what's done is done. I suggest you keep doing what you did when you met her, stay the same awesome person who has a bunch of friends, who goes out and flirts with women, who brings that same energy back to her when you do have time to see her.

Alpha males in the hunter gatherer era were most likely monogamish, not monogamous.

Title	Have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now, how can I stay alpha in the relationship?
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Date	February 3, 2013 8:05 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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