Pick up in a concert setting?

be_the_man · 2013-02-04T13:38:30+00:00

My recent experience:

I saw Excision several months ago (meaning the bass was so intense you could barely hear someone talking directly in your ear). I was with some friends and a girl. I left them and went to the front of the venue by myself and found a spot near a couple cute girls to hang out and dance. Started dancing close to one girl in front of me and smiled at her when I could get eye contact. Once her body language showed that she was getting comfortable with me, I firmly grabbed her torso and started grinding with her.

After a while I spun her around and signaled that I had to leave (I had to get back to the girl I brought with me). Then I put my hand to my ear like a phone and point to her pocket. She nodded and pulled out her phone. I texted myself from her phone and showed it to her before I hit send. Before I walked away, I leaned in and pointed to my cheek for a kiss, and gave her a hug after she kissed me.

The point is, just be physical and use body language. All the important traits like confidence and social awareness can be communicated through body language. For instance, when this girl's friend tried to pull her away, it only took appropriate body language and a facial expression to show that I was outcome independent, I knew what was up, and I knew she would come back to me.

That girl saw me outside the venue after the show and looked at me expectantly. I was definitely in to go talk to her and her friend and make something happen, but, unfortunately, I was with the girl I had brought, so I couldn't do anything without having to put with a bunch of shit from my date.

KBart17 · 2013-02-04T21:11:08+00:00

well ive picked up 3 girls at concerts. all of which were rock so lots of jumping and so on. 2 of the 3 girls jumped into me on accident and smiled. and from there i just flirted and by the end of the show i was basically in their pants, they may not have that classy but still. the third one i was at a show and i had vip passes and so did she. we ended up in line next to each to each other i just talked about the band and such. asked if she has seen them live before, found out we have gone to the same warped tour venue 3 years in a row but never saw each other. ended up me and her standing next to each other the entire show and we dated for a while. just talk about the band playing basically or get lucky and have girls jump into you

Lopsterbliss · 2013-02-04T12:09:05+00:00

Just stand outside the bathroom, there's definitely a way to do that without being creepy...but on the real, the only luck I've ever had at a concert is either outside where people congregate to smoke, or at the bar in between sets edit: this is speaking mostly from rock/metal, but I feel those two windows of opportunity are the same regardless

putaneiro · 2013-02-04T12:10:45+00:00

This thread has some good insight. It helped me at least: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15vwyu/closingescalating_on_gigsconcerts/

kilik2049 · 2013-02-04T12:44:49+00:00

I can't give you rule of thumb or exact guideline. But I know I've been more lucky in shows in MTL than anywhere else (when in the crowd, when you're on stage, it's easy peasy everywhere). But it was at metal shows though.
Just apply basic seduction in between sets (kino, cocky and funny etc). You can use crowd moves to apply A LOT of kinos during the show, even if I don't know how is the crowd in hip hop shows.
I had this girl once who was super shy and just told me her name, so I spoke with her male friends and the two HBs I just met. Once the show started, she made her way behind me and start grapping me. After two songs, we were making-out. Even after her bf saw me. In my defense, he never told they were together, and neither did she. Fun times.

Title	Pick up in a concert setting?
Author	LymeMN
Upvotes	15
Comments	8
Date	February 4, 2013 10:49 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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