I feel like I never reap the rewards of my hard work.

Mr_Zarika · 2013-03-01T00:03:05+00:00

Stop this.

Having a girlfriend is something I have been wanting for 6 years.

I feel like the world is against me, that I am not allowed to have a girlfriend.

I know we all can get discouraged and get down, but ever verbalise it. Don't put your fears to words, they're not even real so why acknowledge them? When you hear yourself say something, subconsciously it becomes more real.

Second, when she says, "who is this?" you always joke around. Don't let your desperation make you too serious. "OHHH WHY DOESN'T SHE REMEMBER ME!? SHE MUST HATE MEEEE!!" Would you want to hang around that kinda attitude? Gross.

We just kissed and now I’m sitting here with a boner ;)

That's funny dude. I actually spat out my orange juice. LOL

You sound like you're getting some pretty solid successes here dude. Don't get down on yourself. Just relax though, your mentality of I NEED A HOT GIRLFRIEND is making me sick.

You're putting too much value in having a girlfriend. Just enjoy fooling around and have a good time. You're 18, I can almost guarantee that whatever girl you find now will not be around in a few years.

TL;DR? RELAX...you're too intense about NEEDing a girlfriend.

Ebon_Cobra · 2013-03-01T00:51:24+00:00

No one said there'd be any rewards. The path you've chosen is just the most efficient way to get the rewards you want.

You could die before ever pulling, even doing all these things, and more theoretically.

Title	I feel like I never reap the rewards of my hard work.
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Upvotes	3
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Date	February 28, 2013 10:05 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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