In the past few months my game has improved drastically, and the biggest factor that I can name is simply being more aggressive and forward with girls. I'm in college and sell bikes, and one of the techniques our company promotes is being very forward with the customer by flat out asking them for the test ride and then later "assuming the sale" (using euphemisms, of course, ie "Ready to move forward on the bike? Then let's talk accessories").
How does this apply to seduction? I used to be very hesitant to make big moves in my game. I could initiate and escalate like a champ etc. but struggled with sealing the deal. The solution is really simple: assume the sale. The product you're selling this time is yourself. If things are going well with a girl, don't be afraid to say "Hey, let's get out of here." If you've read the situation properly you're not going to get a negative response here. Worst case she "has to stay with her friends" or "isn't that type of girl" which can be worked around. However, in my experience that simple line works very frequently.
Same thing applies to text game (possibly more relevant to college than real life). You've got her number, you've put in the work and built attraction, possibly made out before. Here I'm not so forward because due to the nature of texting it can come across as cold or just a booty text (which it is, but you don't want that to be her first reaction). I usually go with "Hey, are you free tonight?" If she's busy but wants to make plans for later I do it, otherwise just brush it off. If I get an affirmative response that means she does want to hang out tonight, so I go ahead and assume the close. I follow with something like "I'm hanging out in my room, come over later." It's also a good way to establish casual hookups, because if she's game then it doesn't set her up with unrealistic expectations. If I want to date a girl I'll ask her out on a date, but sometimes you just want to get your nut.
This method has worked well for me, I'd love to hear any feedback, good or bad. Stay thirsty, my friends.
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