4 worst texting mistakes

So getting to it, one of by far the most frustrating things is after you get a woman’s number (and she is apparently totally into you)

… However after several texts she seemingly fades in interest.

The natural reaction may be to blame the girl. “What a flake…”

But if you undertake that, you may be missing a valuable piece of info within your GAME that is a lot easier to fix than you would imagine.

In fact, if you’re similar to most guys then you’re likely just making one particular (or a few) of such common ‘texting’ mistakes that could be problematic for attracting that girl.

1: Confusing Responses for Interest

Before you’ve had your first date, she won’t feel that high of a connection with you. As unfortunate as it might be, you’re not really the only gentleman texting her.

Observe, a common oversight most guys make when they’re texting her is that they mistake responses as attraction. Often each time a guy is finding a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting nearer to seducing her.

This isn't the case!

The more text messages you send prior to meeting up means the less of your chance you will get her! That’s right: regardless of whether a girl is Addressing your texts, you’re not getting ANY closer.

As an alternative, say more using less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a woman, see if there is anyway to say it much easier, with less wording. Most guys send out pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day? ” or “Enjoying the warm weather? ” These texts DON'T bring you ANY nearer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).

To be positive you NEVER again waste texts on useless banter, ask oneself this important question:

How is this specific text bringing this specific girl and I nearer to a date?

If it isn't, erase the text immediately. It’s not going to assist you.

2: Not being “Fun”

Right here is the simple truth. When a woman will give you her number she's NOT signing the social contract to go out with you…

And until it seems like FUN for her… she’s not really going to make an effort meeting up along with you.

So when anyone sends boring text messages that don’t display any personality or perhaps don’t elicit any emotions in her… within her mind you’re not worth the difficulty of meeting up with.

Here are some signs you’re CERTAINLY NOT being fun.

: Am I getting stiff and conventional “Hi. It was nice meeting you Friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)

  • Am I putting pressure on her behalf to keep the actual convo going?

: Am I badgering the woman with question?

Remember, every text sent should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. An escape from the woman's boring day.

3: Not Developing a Texting Style

If you’re texting an attractive woman you are NOT the only guy she gets a text from today, like I said.

Hate to break it to you.

But between other guys pursuing the woman, ex boyfriends, co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got plenty of guys competing for her attention.

So if you would like to stand out- your texts have to display your exclusive style and persona.

She should have the capacity to know its the text from 'you' simply by reading it (even if the name wasn't shown)

What words, phrases, punctuation, or perhaps emoticons are uniquely yours?

4 Having Long Text Chats

Text conversations won't be the same as actual discussions.

Texting should function as the “Super cool” points of regular conversations. Meaning abandon the formalities.

The longer the conversation the more likely to screw things up or run into awkward moments.

Every time you get on the phone… jump directly into the good material. Start with a routine. Begin with a teasing nickname. Discover a way to quickly tug her emotions and solicite her attention to you in less words. Once you have her attention and she is seemingly entertained, you can find out when she's available and propose for meeting up.

So there you have some basic advice.

Good Luck.

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