Hey there, Seddit! Long time no see! Well, that's mostly my fault: I've been slacking off mostly due to my Master thesis, and yesterday evening I broke a dry spell that I've had since September. Feels good to be back!

Two days ago, a girl with whom I slept one time and I are texting, and she asks me to show her friend who came to visit Amsterdam a good time the next day. I ask a bit, get a picture of the friend, and think "Sure, why not?" I was planning on just going out, showing her my favorite spot in Amsterdam, and see what happens.

After agreeing to do so, I see that this girl has a golden ring around her ring-finger. Am I going to take out a married girl? I decide to ask my friend whether that's a wedding ring. This was a mistake: I was caring too much and I was overthinking it. Besides, I wasn't going to back out of my promise because the girl is married - that's lame, you don't want to be lame. Ever.

So I meet the girl, she's on time. I take a look at her, and her face is completely different from what I saw in the picture - HB8 at the picture, HB6 in real. She also had a red lipstick smear on her teeth, which was kind of a turn-off for me, for some reason. This was kinda good - when I was disqualifying the girl, I basically prevented myself from putting her on a pedestal.

I finish my coffee at the Starbucks, and we go. Now, the place I took her to is an adventure, in itself: it's right next to an abandoned wharf, and the only way to get to the area is by taking the ferry and then walking through the abandoned wharf. Now, as we start walking, I see that it's been fenced off for some festival - there were also loads of tents, but there was not a soul in sight. I decide to take the adventurous route, boost the girl over the fence. I then try climbing over, but fail - the fence is too high! So I tell her to wait there, and I'll be with her shortly. In retrospect, this was (kind of) a compliance test, as she agreed to wait for me in the middle of what looked like an abandoned circus. I manage to eventually climb over, and we see that we have another fence to climb over - but this one's a piece of cake. It was actually kind of fun, as it enhanced the trip to the pub's adventurous feeling. During the entire trip I would lightly touch her shoulder to make points, and she seemed to respond well to my touch. The lessons: everything should be an adventure and never stop kino'ing!

We get into the pub, get our drinks, and she takes off her coat, and I can barely believe my eyes - holy crap, that's an HB8.5 body! We sit down (the place was a lot fuller than usual, but we still found spots), and start talking. I ran the Cube and the hand-squeeze-trust-tests on her, and teach her a way to say "Cheers" that my Spanish classmates in Brussels taught me, when I notice one of the couches has cleared and that the conversation has cleared. I take her to the couch - she relaxes and is loving every moment of it. I run the cherry field test on her, and she loves that test, as well. During the conversation, I touch her knees, arms and legs when talking. Lesson: escalate!

She brings up the topic of how cloudy the nights are, she misses seeing the stars. I tell her about how in the desert, you can even see satellites orbiting. This is probably the key point of the conversation.

Me: It's amazing, really. When you see those stars, and you realize that-

Her: Most of them are already dead?

Me: Exactly. Makes you feel so small.

Her: Yeah, a lot of people are scared by that.

Me (I grab one of her hands with both of mine. I can see that spark in her eyes, that small smile, that brief blush - she wants it.): Not to me. It's just even more reason to do whatever the hell we want to do.

She smiles, I put my arm around her, she leans back, I push her chin with one of my fingers, so she's facing me - she turns, and we make out.

The lesson: when you feel that gut feeling, that excitement, go for it!

I break the kiss first, and I tease her - "Hm, you're not bad." she hits my playfully - remember: it says "fuck you", but it means "fuck me". We talk a bit, and she says something along the lines of "These things shouldn't happen like this." I tell her "What, you thought you were getting into my pants tonight? I'm not that easy." This basically shakes her frame, makes her want you even more. Lesson: be the catch.

We go outside, I show her the lights of the city from a distance, we make out some more, and I start feeling her up - she immediately starts moaning. I smile and say "I shouldn't do this in public." she laughs. "Let's go to my place." I wanna thank /u/40_year_old_playa for that line - he posted it in his latest FR and that freeze-out worked magic for me. lesson: be the motherfucking prize.

On the way to my place, she tells me her flight is actually the next evening and that she still has to go back to our mutual friend's house to pack. We fluff talk to pass the time, make out a bit more. Eventually we get to my place, on my bed, with no LMR at all. I fuck her once, then we check online what's her best way of taking public transport to our mutual friend's house. I then make the offer that she stays in my place, or I come with her to our mutual friend's. This was a mistake: I came across as needy! If she wants to leave, I should let her leave and not try to persuade her at all. Then this conversation takes place"

Me: You know, when I saw that ring on your finger, I thought you were married.

Her: You'd be surprised.

Me (I'm kinda shocked. Did I just fuck a married woman? That's a first!): Wait, you really are married?

Her: Yup!

I shrug. We fuck again, rest a bit, get dressed and make sure she gets her final metro.

While she's on her way back, she texts me that she forgot her necklace at my place. We make plans to meet again the next day (i.e. today, April 1). I get her necklace, we chat a bit, have a cup of coffee, and I want to show her another really cool place in Amsterdam, but she wants to take the train back to her friend's. I actually was kind of disappointed, and almost showed it. The lesson: don't be needy. Really, don't. If she wants to go, she goes. I get her to her train platform. We make out heavily as her train arrives. As always, I break the kiss first, I tell her to have a nice flight, and walk away.

Damn, it feels good to be back.

TL,DR; read the FR, you lazy fucker.