i'm a guy from india who gets friend zoned by every other girl I interact with. please help...

moojo · 2013-04-12T07:23:06+00:00

the simplest question: are you ugly? that's probably the first step. how do you dress? are you skinny? fat? do you bathe? humans are primarily sight-driven so appearance is unfortunately important. take a look at subreddits like /r/malefashionadvice and see if you can find looks that you like.

secondly, how is your personality? are you meek? nervous? quiet? bitchy? sometimes, if you are hot, it completely overrides personality flaws but that is a very rare instance. work on your confidence. typically when you start taking care of your appearance, your confidence grows. try being more assertive, not only in the dating world but in every aspect of your life. establish goals you want, whether career goals or hobbies and work to accomplish them.

destinys_parent · 2013-04-12T11:53:42+00:00

Don't say the word "friend zone". It makes you sound like a high school bitch.

innergame · 2013-04-12T13:55:35+00:00

Girls don't Friend Zone guys. Guys Friend Zone themselves.
Bettering yourself is a journey, not just a short Q&A session. To help yourself, you'll need to stick around awhile and commit. You will have to be comfortable pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.
What steps have you taken already?

TofuTofu · 2013-04-12T15:18:22+00:00

Everything you need is located in the sidebar. I'm removing your post, if you feel the need for more responses, please repost in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks!

Title	i'm a guy from india who gets friend zoned by every other girl I interact with. please help...
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Date	April 12, 2013 6:59 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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