Seddit, Where should I start learning this for a man(20) in my life's position? (4 years went to an all boys high school)

2013-04-22T05:54:37+00:00

New habits for you:

Read 1 new book a week: Some introductory recommendations:
Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
Models by Mark Manson
The Natural by Richard La Ruina

Meditate every day. If you don't know how to do this, see the books:
Mindfulness in Plain English (available free online)
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
If you have an iPhone, search "mindfulness" on the app store; the blue one isn't bad to get you started.

Eat a healthy, non processed, plant based diet Besides the obvious health benefits, this will have a great effect on your mood and focus.

Exercise regularly 'Nuff said.

Go to sleep and wake up at roughly the same times every day. Exceptions made for going out/nights of wild sex.

The unexamined life is not worth living. Structure each day. See Ben Franklin's schedule for some inspiration: http://i.imgur.com/Sp6CARl.jpg

You become like the people you spend time with Start making better friendships. Also, I've found listening to audio programs can have a similar effect; some great ones are:

On Being a Man by David DeAngelo
77 Laws of Women and Dating by David DeAngelo
The Blueprint by Owen Cook (RSD)
pretty much anything by Tony Robbins

Finally, Do one thing a day that scares you

Good luck!

OutlawPUA · 2013-04-23T01:19:50+00:00

Start with a little bit of reading:

Magic Bullets by Lovesystems
Natural Game by Richard La Ruina

Don't get bogged down in the literature unless you're genuinely fascinated by social dynamics. Once you've read these two books (and it shouldn't take you longer than a week to get through both of them), start going out and approach people. People are fun, and interesting. Subscribe to /r/malefashionadvice and GQ and improve your wardrobe. Take up at least two cool hobbies like guitar or surfing, live a life of passion. To re-wire some counter-productive attitudes and behaviors, do something death-defying like jump out of a plane or swim with sharks. The feeling of your own realized mortality will make talking to girls as easy as breakfast. Treat your body with respect, so adopt a healthy diet and maintain a good exercise routine, because if you can't take care of yourself, how can you expect to take proper care of a quality girl? Finally, one of the strongest and most seductive qualities you can have while talking to a girl is to let go of your outcome. Outcome independence and an abundance mentality are the yellow brick road on the way to natural game.

JayZizek · 2013-04-22T23:02:04+00:00

I strongly suggest familiarizing yourself with the principles outlined here. The relationship advice and Alpha sections are the best. Start reading. EDIT: Spelling.

Title	Seddit, Where should I start learning this for a man(20) in my life's position? (4 years went to an all boys high school)
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Date	April 22, 2013 4:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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