Guy texts girl first?

drpepperfishmascot · 2013-05-07T22:11:40+00:00

If it's become a regular thing, then she's used to it. She's used to the attention. She knows to expect a text from you at some point throughout the day. It's predictable. It's boring. Stop texting her for a bit. Don't initiate. If she's interested she'll initiate herself. The mere fact that you haven't paid her attention will get her thinking.

Concealus · 2013-05-07T22:14:29+00:00

Of course you should go out and get her, but texting's boring, be different than those other 10 guys trying to be her boyfriend. Call her, or god forbid hang out with her in real life ! Text should only be used to set up real-life dates ! Go get her.

fall0ut · 2013-05-07T22:10:20+00:00

there is no right answer to this question. everyone is different. some girls will text you all day long and some won't. if you feel like you're coming off too strong then back off and see how it goes.

maybe mix it up and not text her all day then call her that night or the next day. if she texts you, cool... reply.

bl1y · 2013-05-08T14:24:34+00:00

Texting is for delivering information, not building attraction. Go see her in person.

Title	Guy texts girl first?
Author	odbale
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	May 7, 2013 9:31 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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