Hey guys, I've been a lurker for a very long time and I love the tips, stories and motivation. It really gets me pumped up.

I haven't been going out at night for a while, but finally decided to go out last night.

In terms of appearance, I would say that I'm quite athletic, standing 6ft tall..

But the thing is when you're out you'll realize that it's basically a concentration of ALL the dudes in the area trying to get girls. There will always be that 6' 5 guy standing over you.. Or that hockey bro that's louder than you.

In addition to the above, clubs and bars are also relatively dark, with a lot of noise everywhere.

Ultimately, I found it very hard to establish my "presence" in the club.

Before approaching, I think it's important for you to catch a girl's attention and gauge her interest to show that you're a worthy candidate.

Otherwise she will consider you as just another chump trying to hit on her.

How do you guys do it?

I appreciate any inputs or stories guys.. Thanks in advance!