I'm tired of being rejected. Two nights in a row I go in for a kiss. First time: I barely know you!!!! Second time: nice try dude. I'm not escalating fast enough I know it. I can get touchy feely but then I get rejected when I go for the kiss.
I don't even know but I don't want to give a fuck. I just want to kiss a girl and have her into me. I don't want to be friend zoned anymore. I don't want to feel just like a helpless friendzone afc. I'm a good looking dude I have it in me to get a girl.
I don't want to be ignored when I ask a girl to come out to food with me (this is another story). Am I being too awkward around her? Am I being creepy? I've been taking rejections left and right and thinking that sooner or later I'll have a breakthrough, but it's not happening. I am good enough for these girls but I'm being too fucking shy. Maybe.
Tonight was a night where I was able to keep up conversation for the most part and here's where the tiny FR comes in:
Me, friend A and girl B were drinking in my room and having a really fun time before going to a concert. We go to the concert, dance a little but A is way too drunk. By this time B and I are having pretty good eye contact and touching each other's hands.
We end up leaving A to get my car and pick him up. I'm alone with B at this time and we're walking to my place, her hands on my shoulders.. my hands on her waist. Get back to my car, get inside and I put my hand to the back of her head and slightly pull her in but she's got a semi look of shock, pulls away and says - nice try man. I play it off cool and don't make it awkward but I don't know man. Where am I going wrong?
I don't know where to go with myself anymore. Is it me just being a pussy or is this just a stepping stone? A few weeks ago I wouldn't even go for the kiss but now I am and I feel I'm getting close.
Oh so close... help seddit.
Tl;Dr: tried going for k-close, rejected. What next?
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