how the fuck do you have a conversation at a club

gadelat · 2013-05-12T21:09:29+00:00

You need to get her fucking close and shout to ears of each other. That's why it's perfect to kino. Put your hand on her back and pull her closer to your ear.

kingcal · 2013-05-12T11:31:05+00:00

Don't.

Seriously. It's not a fucking book club. No one gives a shit what you have to say in a club. The most important thing is your body language and state of mind. You can fucking bark at women in a club and if you're having fun people will dig it. Save the conversation for Day 2.

2013-05-12T14:25:21+00:00

I had the same problem, basically I think you have to physically approach (dance /grind on them in the dance floor or try to grab one by the hand and lead her there) or go to somewhere like the smokers area or a quieter bar in another room where you can approach with the intention of talking. You're not going to be able to impress them with your wit and charm if you're both screaming 'what' in their ear as you discovered.

SwingSwing32 · 2013-05-12T11:13:40+00:00

Lol. Only thing I can advise is get away from the source of the music. If you see a girl you like on the dance floor, maybe just try and keep tabs on where she's going. What I'm trying to say is wait until she has also moved away from the source of the music before talking to her. But obviously don't stare at her whilst you wait, go talk to another girl away from where your target is for a bit, then go to her when she's in a quieter place.

Or get a hearing aid.

2013-05-12T18:01:00+00:00

non-verbal communication

Techniq_ · 2013-05-12T19:46:32+00:00

Choice of Venue that suits your persona is a very important choice when you play the game... it affects your behavior, confidence levels, etc.

I hate loud music. I don't dance either. and its waay harder to play this game with the loud music, but that's where the hot women are. Highest concentrations.... by far.

But you know, there's always a quiet place in the club. Around or behind the bar, smoking patio, etc.

Personally if I would have had enough compliance where she walked up to me, I probably have enough compliance to move her where I can hear her. Perhaps you could have taken her by her hand and led her to this quieter area under the plausible deniability of you or her getting a drink.

Although, if clubs really don't suit you, you might want to try parties, bars and lounges.

PenultimatePanther · 2013-05-12T20:20:28+00:00

Drink or get into state with warm ups. When you're in state or drunk, your unconscious vocal volume 'locks' free and you naturally talk much louder. Have you ever noticed how obnoxiously loud a room of drunk people is? Have you ever noticed how loud a person is when they're happy, outgoing, and holding court?

You don't have to hear her. The point is to talk at her for a bit then lead her somewhere else.

n1nj4_v5_p1r4t3 · 2013-05-12T21:26:53+00:00

I completely agree. You talk with your body, and move your body at the pace of the physical-audio entertainment to attract potential mates.

2013-05-12T22:11:22+00:00

$5 wow, that's cheap! Yeah, clubbing is hard. The only thing you can do is try to piece together small parts of what she's saying. If she's receptive enough through body language, take her to some seating, the bar or the smoking area - even if you don't smoke, like I don't. That's the best way to have a conversation.

Dynasty2201 · 2013-05-13T13:29:43+00:00

Sorry but I had to laugh. Conversations like that tickle me.

And I love it when you catch people winging it when they pretend to hear what you've said just to make the awkwardness end.

One time I was working at a paintball site, and called a fellow colleague over. We had the site's safety netting between us. I need him to throw me a spare hopper over the netting.

Unfortunately, a generator was whirring away about 10ft from us."

"Hey, X, can you throw me a spare hopper please mate?!"

"Huh!?"

"Can you throw me a spare hopper please!?" (now pointing in the general direction of the gear).

"WHAT?!"

"CAN. YOU. THROW. ME. A. SPARE. HOPPER. PLEASE!?"

"Ohhh, haha, yeah I know." and he just walked off.

"You didn't hear me did..." oh he's gone.

But yeah, short of grabbing her hand and leading her somewhere quieter in the club, or outside, don't bother with club conversations.

superchibisan2 · 2013-05-12T15:21:31+00:00

Easy tip, don't talk in a club. Its about Kino and "aura". Look good, and grind some ladies. One of these days, one of those sluts is gonna slut you all up.

And if you really need to talk, say "I am gonna go outside for some fresh air, come with me!", then grab their hand and pull them along.

hefnetefne · 2013-05-12T19:35:24+00:00

With your hips.

NoWomanNoCry_ · 2013-05-12T19:26:27+00:00

The best move I have is to use notepad in my iPhone and create an immediate text-game. It works wonders.

Title	how the fuck do you have a conversation at a club
Author	throwaway20130512
Upvotes	11
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Date	May 12, 2013 6:48 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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