I'm not trying to have sex with her, i just want to make her my girlfriend.

catccherguy14 · 2013-05-28T04:29:17+00:00

What ever you do, own it. If it means just coming out and saying, "I like you a lot, let's date," then at least you are being straight with her and you will both be on the same page. Then you can talk about your sexual desires later, but at least you both will have a clear perspective of where this relationship is headed.

skater687 · 2013-05-28T20:32:38+00:00

I would say to be confident and seem comfortable with it, If you seem more comfortable with the jokes she will to, I think the 1 thing is confidence and be a Positive person who she will enjoy spending time with you and she can be comfortable with, that's just my opinion.

krypto1339 · 2013-05-28T06:03:21+00:00

How old are you? It might be easier to advise if we knew.

parpels · 2013-05-28T08:36:17+00:00

You can be sexual, yet reserved and not pushy. I've been sexual and hooked up with girls where normally when it when came down to it with a random girl I'm attracted to I would go all the way. But because I actually liked them and didn't want it to be just a one night stand, I would hold back when a make out session gets extremely intense and say "Lets wait, I like you and don't want to move too fast." I think just the attitude and confidence that comes along with being sexual and using your sexual energy to your advantage it what its all about.

rmbarnes · 2013-05-29T12:07:19+00:00

Not wanting to have sex is a bit odd.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-28T15:50:09+00:00

If you're not having sex, she's not your girlfriend, she's your friend.

RSDkyle · 2013-05-28T06:57:38+00:00

how old are u

puaSenator · 2013-05-29T15:15:58+00:00

It's going to be a long summer.

Title	I'm not trying to have sex with her, i just want to make her my girlfriend.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	30
Date	May 28, 2013 4:08 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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