I can fall in love with a girl without even knowing her well

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-06-03T21:41:47+00:00

You're not in love with her, you don't even know her. You're projecting your hopes and dreams onto her. Few women could ever live up to all that.

Clear your head of all that fantasy stuff. It's preventing you from seeing the real woman who is right in front of you. Listen to her. Do you know how few guys really listen to what she's saying?

jimmyayo · 2013-06-03T22:38:08+00:00

No offense OP. You sound like you're really young and naive. I say this because that is exactly how I was when I was young and naive.

It took me a few girlfriends to realize that girls, when you get to know them, are just as fucked up as guys are, if not more so.

You are automatically qualifying them in your head. You're liking them without even getting to know them. That's not love, that's infatuation. In your head, before real interaction has begun, you already put this fantasy version of the girl way up on a pedestal - leaving you at the bottom looking up at her.

Remember, everybody has flaw, most of us, including women, have some severe ones. Try to find out what these girls are REALLY like inside, and find out if they're truly worthy of your time and affection.

swabfalling · 2013-06-03T23:02:44+00:00

Your mindset shouldn't be "wow, this girl is great, I wonder if she and I would work", it should be "wow, I'd like to know more about her, and see if she is worth my time."

A key mindset to keep in your mind is that girls are great at stealing your time. A girl that is worth your time is a girl who you don't mind giving your time to.

You can't know if a girl is worth your time unless you get to know her, and I can bet 90% of them aren't.

Chill. They're not worth your time in person, they're not worth your time in your head, they're just another girl until you find out they aren't a pain in the ass.

But they probably are a pain in the ass. Chill out enough to get a date, and you'll find them fall from grace very quickly.

BE PICKY, my brother. They should serve your time, not the other way around.

Title	I can fall in love with a girl without even knowing her well
Author	throwaway12513
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	June 3, 2013 9:16 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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