I was reading Mark Manson's "Models" and he said when your texting a girl you haven't talked to in a while it's best to remind them of a good time you shared. What's your guys' opinion on that? For example I'm debating what to text this girl I haven't talked to in about 3 weeks. Should I say "Hey just going through my pics and saw the one we took at (club name), how've you been?" "Hey long time no talk, how've you been" Or just simply "Hey how've you been?"