asked my plate to hangout for tomorrow, she said she has some work stuff to finish up but “ i will let you know”. i responded “ its chill, you seem busy”. is this a good way to make her respect my time and give me a direct yes or no answer? i rescinded my offer to hangout from her which shows that my time is valuable and i am not willing to sit around waiting for her to let me know, which basically means no. i must not be her top option.

she asked me to come fuck and sleep over on Thursday later in the week in which i agreed to. i then asked her to fuck tomorrow(monday) as well , should i just fuck her and not sleep over because she basically rejected me for tomorrow by saying “ ill let you know”?