Yes I understand not being fat is the best thing I can do. Working on it. I'm down about 50 pounds since Feb. (out of a 110 poundish goal), but that still leaves me at 225 at 5'9". I also understand looks matter less than everyone assumes. I understand these things, and don't really need them reiterated.

There are, however, definitely some changes that could be made to parts of the game that could benefit a bigger, less attractive guy. I, of course, don't know what those are!

Most of the best field reports I'm reading are definitely from guys who have been in the game a while, and as such have improved themselves physically. There's great information in a lot of those reports, and I could be entirely incorrect about needing to tweak parts of the game.

It just feels like there's more work to do building the attraction the LESS attractive you are overall - and I'd love to hear someone speak on the subject or link me to an applicable field report or two!