Had sex last night but feeling disappointed about how things turned out. Anyone else get this? FR inside.

vonnegutcheck · 2013-07-11T15:49:14+00:00

Off the top of my head:

Don't have drunk sex with somebody you don't know very well and haven't had sex with before.

Don't describe them as "sex giving" abilities. Sex isn't something you give to somebody, it's something you have with another person.

The "write the alphabet" thing isn't gospel. It's meant to get you to think about using different strokes and pressures.

Stop thinking of yourself as "good at sex." Be confident, have fun, but stop thinking you figured it out.

TacticalSniper · 2013-07-11T14:20:12+00:00

She might've had a bad time. Pull a smile out of your pocket, just to make yourself feel better, forget the "down", and go out with her again. I doubt she forgot the evening, and if she said she had a good time, my guess would be that she was "out of it" for one reason or another, and wants another chance. Do give it to her.

puaCurveBall · 2013-07-11T21:03:26+00:00

Are you really asking random people on the internet to determine if your personal experience was a "success" or "failure"?

This is not how to live your life bro.

puntingbaxter · 2013-07-11T18:01:27+00:00

So you got blue balls, of course you are going to feel disappointed

merzen · 2013-07-11T22:00:21+00:00

I just read somewhere that a clitoral orgasm makes her very sensitive which can cause any additional stimulation to be painful. so learning to give orgasm in other ways would help you be able to carry on.

the fact that she did not finish you kind of sucks though.

2013-07-11T18:09:55+00:00

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SupALupRT · 2013-07-11T15:20:04+00:00

You never know what fucked up shit is going on in a womans head. Just hang out again and see what happens, when someone sends the "had a good time" text unprovoked, they do want to see you again.

Title	Had sex last night but feeling disappointed about how things turned out. Anyone else get this? FR inside.
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Date	July 11, 2013 1:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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