This is a few nights worth. Also, I'm going to add in a few moments where I didn't approach because that's part of it.

*Thursday, last week: *

I went out with some friends with no intention of sarging. It was just a night to hang out and have fun at the local pub. Holy shit! Nearly every girl in this pub had a huge ass wedding ring! My friends' sister and two other girls showed up and asked us to join their table. Friend's sister (who is now called Sissy) is married and I don't go for any friends' sisters. HB 6 was with Sissy and kept complaining about how no men would come up to her. I asked her why she thought that and kept challenging her views, using a little Kino here and there. I'm not into HB 6, but I thought I'd practice and try to get her to put herself out there for guys.

She kept asking me about all these girls in the pub, and what I would rate them. I told her what I thought, flat out. I didn't feel ashamed and she kept getting this "angry" reaction, that was not angry at all. She was bad at hiding how much she liked to hear the honesty. Anyway, I didn't approach any girls in that pub, but it has another bar next door. She and Sissy asked me to scope it out for any guys for HB 6.

I walked over there alone and met HB 8 who I had taken on a date 6 weeks ago. We both got excited in seeing each other and I immediately grabbed onto her and held her close, making sure my body was in contact with hers, especially my pelvis. She reciprocated quite well and wants to see me again. I asked for a good night kiss as I had to go back to the other bar and got the K-close. In retrospect, I should have gone for a full on make out, but I liked the bit of tease there. We parted ways and I returned to my table at the other pub.

HB 6 is still grumpy and says she shouldn't have to settle. She doesn't expect my answer as I say, "Hell no, you shouldn't settle! You should only go for a guy who has the balls to approach you that you like." Sissy loves this advice and asks how the hell I'm not married. I explain I'm just learning to approach. It was a fun night, and I learned that the philosophy and theory of seddit is truly appreciated by girls.

Saturday night

Asked a friend to come out and go bar hopping. Mind you, I still can't drink, and he doesn't drink. Bar hopping is still fun. We meet at the same pub as the group of people I was with on Thursday and small chat for a few minutes. He and I go to the other bar next door and I freeze. I can't talk to anyone and there's a gazillion girls in there. I didn't approach anyone, except to ask the occasion of this huge group. I was terrified and he wasn't approaching anyone. We eject the bar and go to a country dance club.

As I walked by a table, I notice HB 7 in blue hanging out alone. I just walk up and tell her she's really cute. We start chatting and I introduce my buddy. He's a good dancer, and I want him to get successful with women, so I offer him up for a dance with her. He looks surprised, but agrees. Her friend, another 7 in black, comes back. It turns out I worked with her sister, and this girl just loves me to death. Instant social proof! We stay with the two of them for a while and chat. I keep doing Kino and make sure I can establish that I want them out in a couple weeks when I can drink again. We get their numbers and dance a bit with them. Shit! I suck something awful at dancing, but they love us. We leave, saying we're going to hit up a few more bars. Just #-closes at this point.

We walk by the first pub and this HB 8 comes walking out. Immediately, within about 3 seconds, I just declare, "WOW!" I extend my hand and ask her for a name. She gives it to us and she's looking for her group of friends. She's an HB 8, doesn't look a day past 30 and she's 41 years old! We walk with her to the other bars to find people and leave after that. She initially told me she was old enough to be my mom. I didn't think of a witty comeback to that, which I regret.

We split from her after she finds a friend of hers, then hit up the only club in town. Now this club isn't fancy. It isn't a club. It's a bar with fancy carpet and a sticky-ass dance floor that sounds like velcro whenever your feet leave the surface of it. I think it's a secret anti-gravity chamber disguised as a club for science. I suck at dance, and don't approach too much. I just try to dance a little bit, and then I wind up helping form a choad crystal on the outer perimeter with my buddy. I go up to an HB 8 and get the best rejection ever. She looks at me with this face, like, are you serious! does the talk to the hand gesture, and walks off shaking her head. I started laughing and actually was quite impressed. My buddy felt bad for me, but I told him it was awesome that I got rejected ice cold like that. That was the BEST moment of the evening!

We went back to country club and hung out with the 7s again. We danced for a while and it was a lot of fun. My buddy is a good dancer and you can tell they love him on the dance floor. He's really new to this and grew up Mormon in a tiny town and then went to BYU Idaho, but recently changed his religious views. He's really doing great for a beginner and he has a lot of fun. 7 in black has a boyfriend, but at the end of the night, with all that Kino, she would have easily given me a make-out. I didn't want to do that though. I really don't like ruining relationships with people I know. Her friend, 7 in blue, is into me, but I was an idiot and didn't go for the K-close. Apparently she wanted nothing to do with my buddy. That was the end of the evening.

Tonight

I went to a coffee shop and say an HB 7 in the corner. I did not approach out of fear and I left after reading and enjoying the most amazing cup of coffee of my life. I went back about an hour later before dancing with a friend, and saw a different girl. HB 8 was studying and she made eye contact with me as I walked to the bathroom. She looked down then up then down then up. After I washed my hands in the restroom, I walked out and sat with her saying she had amazing eyes and I couldn't afford to not meet her. She was flattered and chatted a bit with me. Got the #-close and she seems quite interested. After that, I went to a few casinos and won 15 dollars. Best part of the night!

TL;DR Go out and just have fun! You never know what will happen. Just fucking walk up and talk. Embrace rejection as it can be hilarious and awesome! It makes each success feel even better.