This post is not meant to be about oneitis or something, but I'm still pretty interested in the following because I feel a lot of girls behave like this and I'm not sure how to interpret this:

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3 weeks ago I met a girl at a party and vibed pretty well with her. I got her number and we flirted a bit via text. We go to the same unversity and she often asked where I am on campus and how long I'm gonna be there. She's obviously hinting at wanting to see me again with that, but my schedule is tight and I don't really want to wait for a girl only to make a bit of small talk.

Every time I try to set up a date she tells me several reasons why she's busy at the moment, but that she likes my suggestion. She isn't rescheduling though and when I text "alright, no problem. Sounds like you're really busy at the moment. Just text me when you're free." the convo dies out for maybe a day only to be spammed with snaps by her and her trying to initiate text contact again with no intent of meeting up.

I don't know how to interpret this. Out of experience I'd say she's really into me, but making it so hard to meet her is kinda sketchy. Is she just texting me for validation? I ignore most of her snaps as they're only selfies or other meaningless shit and answer her texts in short sentences after a few hours if they're not interesting.