So I've gone all the way and F-closed with a girl, now what?

allex8800 · 2013-08-26T12:20:30+00:00

Unfortunately while learning seduction can really help get you into these situations, it also gets you in your head a lot and doubt your actions. And probably rightly so, considering we all come from a place of needing to learn more effective techniques.

But it seems like you're already mostly there. Restrain being needy and being overly chatty. Push for another hangout, even a more traditional date. And don't react if she does things like withdraw or whatever. Have faith in your game. And congrats in finding a great girl that you really like. That's actually surprisingly hard to find.

Mouthpiece · 2013-08-26T18:15:12+00:00

I'm just nervous because she is quite the catch (HB 8-9), and I don't want to learn lessons the hard way and mess it up somehow.

Pedestal. That's one you're putting under the pussy.

Your biggest problem is you don't have the faith in yourself to believe you can pull like this again—that somehow, if you can't keep this girl around, you don't have any other options.

Please tell me you see how that won't end well.

You need to internalize that you CAN do this whenever you want and that —while you certainly should enjoy the company of this girl while she keeps your attention—there are thousands of other women just as good who will be willing to take their turn with you if you would only just give them a chance.

Think from a place of abundance, not scarcity, and things will take care of themselves.

jdisko · 2013-08-26T06:18:19+00:00

You're over-thinking it! You've already got past the hardest parts, now enjoy the company of a new friend and build the friendship like you would with any other person (man/woman/frog/alien/etc). Just continue being forward, let her know your intention (relationship/fwb/etc) and you should be fine.

Title	So I've gone all the way and F-closed with a girl, now what?
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Date	August 26, 2013 6:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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