So i have been working on changing alot (thanks to seddit) for the past months. I try to be more social, give value, eye contact etc.. Since i have been kind of shy before in my 35 year old life there is a big difference in how i am right now. I feel like im not beeing sure who i am in some cases since the changes are going fast.

Ex: When filling out information about personality traits on a dating site. Am i shy or outgoing... etc Of course i fill in the most favourable but i feel like im not 100% confident what to select.

And also if someone would ask me to describe myself i would not be able to give a 100% accurate answer.

Can anyone relate to this? How to deal with it?

It is not a huge problem but it still annoys me. In some features i may be in the "fake it" phase and not transitioned to the "make it" phase and that may contribute to these feelings.