Sorry for the length, but I tried to make it into as much of an interesting story as I could.

I started getting into seduction about this time last year after I failed time and time again with women. It started with me meeting pick up artists at a local club who kind of gave me a small peek into the world of seduction and what it ultimately can provide for you.

After sarging with these two guys all night, I was hooked. These guys were pros (at least in my mind...). They secured 5 numbers each and had chicks coming up to THEM. That's when it started. I was hooked; I had to have this.

After going home and trying to find VH1's show on pickup and being unsuccessful, I somehow stumbled upon Roosh V's book "Bang: the Pickup Bible." I read this book cover to cover, soaking up everything he said. It all made sense; I could get any girl I wanted. Next I came across the very famous "The Game." Read the book cover to cover within a week, and now became slightly obsessed with pickup.

I started telling all my male friends about pickup and how it was theoretically possible to get any girl you wanted as long as you followed the right steps. I found a friend that had also read "The Game" and had been practicing pickup for a while. Perfect. We started going out together and picked up chicks.

Everything was great. Here I was finally being able to score nearly every girl. Phone numbers, make outs, f-closes. I had it all. Life was good.

Then it happened. I met the one. Oneitis. Yup. I have it. Had it. No, still have it. I met her at a business trip. At first, I was attracted to her physicality, but as we talked throughout the night, we clicked in a way that I'm sure many of you have experienced. I probably could have f-closed that night, but I knew she was different and I wanted to take it slow...er. The business trip was about 3 days, so I knew I had at least two more days to seal the deal.

The next day, I was determined to finish what I had started but was unsuccessful due to logistical reasons. The last day came around, and I knew it was now or never. I fine tuned my game and made sure I used everything in my repertoire that I knew would get me to my end goal. And gentlemen. I was successful.

But I knew that this wasn't just going to be a one night thing for me, I had already developed oneitis and now I had to get her hooked.. or rather keep her hooked. Fortunately, we both lived only an hour away from each other so it was feasible.

Sidenote: I know there's a lot of stigma with text game and it's highly recommended to not text a girl very much. I agree 100% with this.... don't text a girl... if you don't know what you're doing. For some reason, I have a knack of knowing how to text women and believe it or not, but I can build attraction via text. Of course, the woman has to have physical contact with me first (making out at LEAST, anything less than and my text game is worthless).

So just from the two nights spent with her, I could tell she was everything I had been looking for. She was the reason I got into seduction and pickup. And for 3 months we "dated." We hung out, we drank, etc. And during the week... we would text. Every day.

But... I got greedy. And this, gentlemen, is where you need to really learn. When you find the one, you damn well make sure you minimize any of your continued seduction; or at least don't be stupid about it (like I did) and fuck up what you have. Even though there are more women out there, let's be real, you'll be hard pressed to find someone with a personality that really connects with you. POSSIBLE? Yes, but difficult. If you are going to lose her, make sure it's not your fault.

So what happened. What did I do to lose Miss Perfect. As I said before, I got greedy. I knew she was the one, but I still wanted more. I was loving my life of seduction too much, even though I already achieved what I had set out for in the first place. It's so easy to lose sight of what seduction is for; it's so easy to get caught up in wanting more when you already have too much. And it sucks when you realize it a little too late.

TL;DR don't lose sight of what it is you're here for