I see this all the time, guys try to wait for the perfect time to approach a girl. They make excuses, “oh she’s with her friends right now”, or with that guy, “il wait for her to be alone” etc. Then they just stand there staring at her, not having the guts to walk over and say “Hi” because the situation isn’t perfect. And before you know it, she’s gone!

This happens so often, to so many guys. Let me tell you something, there is never a perfect time to open a girl. You should always open first, worry later! What this means is you should approach the girl first, regardless of how difficult it may seem, and then worry about dealing with the situation once you are already in it. You can never predict the reaction a girl will give you to anything you say, ever!

There are way too many variables, she may have had the worst day of her life that day, she may have just got fired from her job, or maybe she won the lottery and is out celebrating…who knows? The only way get anywhere with cold approach pick up is to just approach! Stop trying to figure out which sets of girls look the easiest or less ‘risky’ to approach, go for the ones you actually find attractive, the second you see them.

Remember, open first, worry later! You will be surprised with your results in terms of seeing what’s actually possible by pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone. No more excuses, get out there and show yourself what’s possible.