I constantly see this happen in the community, specially in lairs. When a guy talks about an approach or he's sharing the current texts he's been exchanging with a girl, guys jump in to give input and they all have a "solution". "You have to be more outcome independent and remember to be dominant." As if every girl would respond the same way.

I understand that there's a lot of truth to the concepts here and they all make sense. But do you guys think that by micromanaging every interaction and figuring out "what went wrong", we're essentially over-thinking stuff and complicating things even further? Sometimes a girl is just not interested or there's no chemistry, and as much as guys tell you that "you should've done this more and the other less", the truth is there was no compatibility. Don't try to break things down to much.

Anyone here feel the same way?