Hello there Seddit, I love this reddit, I've been lurking the hell out of this reddit lately, I decided to ask a questions I've been asking myself. My name is xxnnddrr, I'm 21 years old, graduated in a bachelor degree and doing a bridge program for a master at the moment. As my first college experience wasn't that awesome. I want to do it better now.

At the start of the college year, I started off with the challenge to be as social as possible. Sitting next to random strangers in class and just talk to them. I've made a couple of male friends already, I think I've brought together a social circle all by myself which was quite an awesome feeling. So that was the first goal I wanted to achieve, now the second thing i've been working on last week. I wanted to meet some new girls, so I did the same thing as the week before, just sitting next to girls and talk to them. I never felt better in my life, it's so damn awesome to talk to cute girls in class and don't feel stressed but just enjoying the moment, see her looking at you with those big eyes and really be interested in you. But now my questions:

  • how do I keep up with these girls

  • Do i add them on facebook after the first time we talked

  • is it okay to ask them to hang out

  • and most of all, how do i prevent to be seen as the playboy because I know girls talk (oow yeah they really do), because i'm really not done after a week and i'm gonna keep this thing going for the whole year.

I think the key to being good with girls is having girl friends, so that the first step in me conquering the women world. Hope you guys can help me with this.

TL,DR: How can I just meet girls without being seen as the awkward pick up girls dude.