What are some advantages of living with a girlfriend?(without having a baby together)

vandaalen · 2018-10-28T14:13:46+00:00

never ever co-habitate with a woman

[deleted] · 2018-10-28T14:40:03+00:00

If you enjoy pain, this is a great way to experience it on a daily basis.

BustaSlug · 2018-10-28T15:01:43+00:00

Advantages since it’s not mentioned:

You have a roommate to split bills but you are still the king of the house. Most male roommate situations you feel your only true space is your bedroom.

Someone to cook

Sex, without someone making plans to go to the other’s house. No dates for sex. Just sex after Kroger..

A designated driver, a maid, a cook

This is how it was for me. But I made her that way with hard work. Granted, cooking and cleaning was already in her personality.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-10-28T15:30:21+00:00

If only we had a sidebar

christophertracy92 · 2018-10-28T14:24:44+00:00

0 advantages.

light-----------dark · 2018-10-28T21:37:29+00:00

There are none.

[deleted] · 2018-10-28T14:27:02+00:00

Nope

chazthundergut · 2018-10-28T14:37:48+00:00

Nope

KillingIsMyBusinesss · 2018-10-29T00:06:32+00:00

None, don’t do it, just go and smash other women while you’re with her

Quaternionz · 2018-10-29T00:22:11+00:00

After having been red pilled I plan to run my next cohabitation as a TPE sex kink. TPE is short for “Total Power Exchange.” Believe it or not a lot of women are turned on by this sort of thing. As the name implies, TPE’s have very strict rules:

1) She doesn’t speak unless spoken to. She can ask for speaking liberties, but they won’t always be granted. She’ll generally get speaking liberties when spending casual time together eating, watching a movie, or socializing in groups.

2) She’s given a strict gym schedule to adhere to.

3) She’s given a strict diet to adhere to.

4) She cooks, cleans, and does all the homemaking (at least by default; contribute as your time and desire permit).

5) Her phone and screen time are managed, and are contingent on good behavior.

6) She’s given a weekly allowance, and otherwise has no say in the finances. (If she works then have two savings accounts and split the savings between the two in proportion to your incomes. If a breakup happens she’ll get her fair share).

7) Punishments for bad behavior are: Hard spankings, time outs spent blindfolded and handcuffed to a chair, allowance restrictions, further denial of screen time, more extreme removal of speaking liberties, etc...

8) Rewards for good behavior are: Extra allowance, desserts and food rewards, extra phone and screen time, extra speaking liberties, etc...

9) Punishments like spankings happen at random with some baseline frequency, just to maintain submissiveness and make the power dynamic clear.

10) When you get home, or enter a room after any long absence, she greets you by coming to kneel at your feet. She doesn’t rise until you give her permission to.

11) You own the lease in your name only, and she’s gone if she crosses any major lines.

12) Sex is never optional.

If you have any experience at all interacting with women via a red pill lens then it actually shouldn’t be all that surprising that TPE’s with muscular, successful, dominant Alphas turn them on.

You wouldn’t dive into this arrangement full blast totally out of the blue. While you’re dating you’d slowly incorporate elements of it. If she’s giving you shit one day just handcuff her and fuck her instead of getting into an argument. Always pay for dates and make it clear that you’re the financially dominant party in there relationship. Get her into the gym as part of your casual hanging out. Teach her to lift, etc...

As you date and your relationship develops kink topics will come up during pillow talk. That’s when you can more explicitly suggest incorporating the numbered items, gradually.

Before you pull the trigger on moving in together make sure to have her over at your place for multiple days in a row on a regular basis, to make sure the dynamic is working. Commit to a permanent move only once it has already been going smoothly for a good long time.

My theory is that a great time to dive into this dynamic is during the “Where is this going? Are we monogamous?” shit test. The Talk. Tell her that this is the lifestyle you enjoy and that it’s required for an LTR with you. If you’re banging other young, feminine, submissive plates then odds are at least one of them will be into it, so your position in demanding it should be coming from a place of genuine leverage and security.

This will naturally be easier with a young, feminine, traditional girl. It’ll be harder with an age-matched feminist type who makes as much money as you do and has a harder time looking up to you, but who wants that relationship anyway.

I won’t enumerate the benefits of a TPE. Feel free to come up with a list on your own.

Honestly, a lot of blue pill relationships are pretty fucking close to be TPE’s where the woman has all the power, so this should be even less crazy and kinky than it might at first sound.

friendandadvisor · 2018-10-29T03:29:16+00:00

Your number one benefit is that the sex will not keep you awake at night.

Title	What are some advantages of living with a girlfriend?(without having a baby together)
Author	Murgul
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Comments	14
Date	October 28, 2018 2:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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